Partner’s teen heard us having sex

Anonymous
Teen was supposed to be sleeping over at a friends house which is why I was sleeping at partner’s house. While we were going at it the next morning, teen texted that they were home, having returned unexpectedly in the middle of the night. Partner did not check phone or receive text until we had finished.

How would you handle.
Anonymous
Troll

This is on partner. Not you.

But there’s nothing to say or do.
Anonymous
Were you that noisy that you're sure they heard something? That poor child.
Anonymous
Who cares? Move on.
Anonymous

Some adults are so selfish. Yuck.
Anonymous
"We'll be quieter next time. Please knock on the bedroom door to let us know you came home in the middle of the night when we didn't expect anyone else to be here."

Delivered by the parent.
Anonymous

Kid should be able to enjoy their own home without this nonsense going on.

Next time, tell your lazy partner to get their butt out of bed and check the house first.
Anonymous
Not your problem Op. It's the parent's problem. Best thing for you to do is pretend you do not have any of this information.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Teen was supposed to be sleeping over at a friends house which is why I was sleeping at partner’s house. While we were going at it the next morning, teen texted that they were home, having returned unexpectedly in the middle of the night. Partner did not check phone or receive text until we had finished.

How would you handle.

How do you know they heard you. It looks like you fantasize about the teen listening to your moans.
Anonymous
Parent should be able to enjoy their own home.

Sex is natural.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Parent should be able to enjoy their own home.

Sex is natural.


Not if you're not married. Nice example for the teen.
Anonymous
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Adults have sex, and you thought they weren't home.

If they were younger, say 10ish, I'd be more concerned. But a teen old enough to leave a sleepover and come home in the middle of the night is old enough to understand adults have sex.
Anonymous
When our kids lived under our roof we went out of our way for them not to hear us. We thought we did a good job until many years later when one daughter said she was now glad to have heard us going at it in our late 40s as it gave her hope. We still enjoy sex in our 60s but I won’t tell her that unless she asks.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Parent should be able to enjoy their own home.

Sex is natural.


Not if you're not married. Nice example for the teen.


THERE you are!!
Anonymous

Ehhh.
How embarrassing.
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