-That has been my kid. She is a fast winger... so she only plays as an outside, winger. She has been missing a ton of development by only playing that position. The Coach never switches her. Never switches her in practice. She should have been rotated in practices and in games to round out her skill set and develop her more. Unfortunately the coach is more interested in winning than developing kids. 100% Coaches should be rotating the kids around... instead we have 2 types of players on our team. The kids who get to play center mid, over and over, who get lots of touches and outside players who only see the ball half the time. We have to work outside of practice to develop defensive and central player skills. So, yes if you are a parent and you only ever see your kid playing 1 position -especially an outside wing or outside back position, know your kid is considered a developmental cast off by the coach and their progress will be slower than the central players or players that get rotated around. |
I wouldn’t worry. This type of player gets easily recruited. If you have speed and size you will be fine. |
| Got to play various positions to build soccer IQ either way and why be forced to limitations of a insecure coaches who only prioritize winning |
Curious, what’s the intrinsic value of being recruited? Is there any thought to maximizing a kids potential? Do you prefer to be a 7/10 and be recruited or be a 9/10 off the radar that will bust everybody’s a— on the pitch but you may have to recruit yourself to your ideal program? |
100% This! Don't stress it. There are TONS of CM players - the competition there as you climb is insane based on quantity (quality is very different here though). Ruud Gullit talked about that from his own experience and how lonely and boring some matches are when you're a winger and your team doesn't get you the ball and sometimes forgets about you. Its part of that position. Does the kid still work off the ball when they're not involved? Are they where they should be even when your team can't get it to you? If yes, you're fine. |
This is not true. Keepers and CB are prime example #1. Same with true strikers. |
My kid got recruited as a winger. In some games he didn’t touch the ball much, while in other games he was quite a threat on the final third. He is fast, good with 1v1, has a decent first touch, and overall has good stats on goals and assists. I think as a winger it’s not that hard to stand out as opposed to midfielders or defenders. |
This is my biggest issue with Kyle…he’s operating as a self-promoter and influencer. There’s zero accountability for outcomes, but plenty of “insider knowledge” positioned as the key to unlocking your child’s future. The pitch is simple…send your kid, trust the process, don’t ask too many questions. It’s the social media version of a rainmaker scam wrapped in a big store ruse model. You’re seeing the same playbook elsewhere. FV from BE posted something similar last week…“trust me, the coach…not even yourself.” That’s not expertise…it’s control. There is no secret sauce. There are fundamentals, and they have to be mastered. And mastery isn’t “yeah, my kid can do that…next.” Master musicians still run scales every day…there’s a reason for that. False 8 is drifting into the same lane. Sped up social videos to make it look like their athletes are so far ahead, “elite” groups, “accelerated” pathways, exclusivity…it’s all designed to appeal to the payer so F8 can secure access to the actual asset…the kid. That model should make you pause. I wouldn’t be surprised if the next step is deeper capture…schooling, lifestyle, full-environment control. We’ve already seen versions of that with Sisu and Beast Academy. At some point, it stops being development and starts looking a lot more like a funnel…separating people from their money. That legitimate model already exists at IMG, and are they pumping out Cavans? Christians? Tobins? Etc? |
What age are you talking about? |
| The day I see 10 CM's in a 0-10-0 formation on a Champions League team is when I'll start worrying about my kid not being a CM |
As the author of the post you are responding too, I 99% agree with your take. Except, it only cost me commercial breaks during the NFL and college 🏈 season to go through Kyle’s playbook with a legal pad and take notes and then read the Croatian model in order to build an IDP for my kid of pure fundamentals. Because I actually have a meat and potatoes blueprint now, that is why I could take my kid to a False8 session and realize it is a complete joke. I really like what Kyle and Christian both “say” but I have the ability to differentiate their information from their sales pitches. Here is what I can say. My kid is currently playing at the same level as kids who starting playing club soccer 2 years before my kids first year playing rec. If Kyle’s free playbook was 💩, he would not have caught up so quickly. Those kids had the “best” youth coaches at the “top” clubs and yet here we are in the same pot and now the separation begins because I have a plan for my kid built for free from these guys. For my kid to have caught up so quickly, most people are doing the wrong things. |
What has Kyle and Christian invented? |
I don't think anyone coaching our kids have "invented" anything. All we're looking for here is information that is easy to follow and access. A podcast format available on Spotify/Youtube, with a decent explanation and easy to follow. The parents that can adapt information for their child and navigate all the sales crap (which is unavoidable main problem), will give their kids a different path. Time and money will be limiting factors, so every family's situation will be different. |
We've followed a similar path with our kid. She's starting travel at U12, and has been playing catch up since she's started. When you're so far behind in all aspects and can't rely on your athleticism, then, it can be a tough journey on figuring out what to prioritize on your own. With our recent tryouts, most of the comments when receiving offers from the tryout coaches are about her having strong fundamentals, good tools, and great potential. She still has a ways to go to reach the top teams, but at least we have adapted a playbook that is getting her there. |
Original IG content for soccer parents. I’m sorry, did the post mention anything about Kyle and Christian inventing something? |