Other than "don't do it," any recommendations for websites to meet authentic local women seeking affairs?

[Anonymous]

You are a fake troll.

I'm the pp with the AM affairs.
Sorry lady. Something about my experience touched a nerve of yours. Nothing here for you to see. Go hide in your closet from other people's experience. Keep believing out of sight, out of mind. See ya.

I'm not proud of my lifestyle choice. I'm just letting OP know that he's missing a goldmine if he doesn't drop the dough on AM. I've been fortunate enough so far to have my cake and eat it also. My guess is that most men don't find it satisfactory though and are not able to find an AP. The women tell me horror stories trying to find an acceptable AP. You have to approach it the same as dating, not treat them like a meat market. Put some time and effort into flirting and don't be over pushy. Don't think a dic pic will help you. You'll have to put in more effort than the women because they have many options. Approach women respectfully and thoughtfully, playfully and sinfully, and you'll be one of their options. Being cheap is not an option. Expecting to share the hotel bill or any other expense will mark you as a looser. I have lots of advice for you OP, I love sharing my playground with other men. Too bad we can't connect in private away from those that find us gross. Most women on this site have every right to vomit about the affair world and I don't blame them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

That describes my ex’s AM AP. A deep dive found she had numerous of these- with little screening at the end. It’s so disgusting that men think they are clean because they are married and stay at home. Think about somebody that will meet strangers online for the sole purpose of banging—none of these men or women are right in the head and bring risks to their spouses and kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

That describes my ex’s AM AP. A deep dive found she had numerous of these- with little screening at the end. It’s so disgusting that men think they are clean because they are married and stay at home. Think about somebody that will meet strangers online for the sole purpose of banging—none of these men or women are right in the head and bring risks to their spouses and kids.

I’ll add at 50 it’s just so fk’d up. By then, you think you would have learned enough to just divorce and start a new life. Many just can’t because they don’t work and would lose everything so exit affairs are what they are secretly trolling for in these “no string” things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

I didn't see any sexy women or men on AM. Much worse than regular Hinge for single people. I matched with tons of unmarried men on Hinge many were looking for LTR and were organizing nice dates: boating, theater, flowers, even baking custom bread for me and bringing it to my home with flowers.

I don't know why any pretty woman in her right mind would be listed on AM. We have so many options with free/single men!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

I didn't see any sexy women or men on AM. Much worse than regular Hinge for single people. I matched with tons of unmarried men on Hinge many were looking for LTR and were organizing nice dates: boating, theater, flowers, even baking custom bread for me and bringing it to my home with flowers.

I don't know why any pretty woman in her right mind would be listed on AM. We have so many options with free/single men!

Because she’s married for one. Desperate 2.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

I didn't see any sexy women or men on AM. Much worse than regular Hinge for single people. I matched with tons of unmarried men on Hinge many were looking for LTR and were organizing nice dates: boating, theater, flowers, even baking custom bread for me and bringing it to my home with flowers.

I don't know why any pretty woman in her right mind would be listed on AM. We have so many options with free/single men!

Because she’s married for one. Desperate 2.

And the fetish of banging someone else’s spouse. Sickos get off on that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I travel weekly to DC/NOVA, staying a couple of nights each week. I'm in a LTR, and the spouse expects that I might want to find someone who I could regularly meet up with for dinner, walks, tennis and possibly more. She says she is ok with it if I'm open about it. So, how do I meet a local person interested in this type of arrangement? I'm leery of AshleyMadison because I've heard it's a lot of fake profiles and scammers, but I have no evidence either way. Any advice on that website, or any other site? I've Googled the question, but I'm looking for insights from those who have used them.

You can't simultaneously ride on multiple boats, either you'll drown or boats would sink.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:More than the cheating - I dislike men who cannot afford sex workers and want to hook up for free.

That's being very obstruse or naive.

I have yummy affairs because it's a girlfriend experience just like any other date. It's nice to have a connection with an attractive woman on a continuing basis that's been starving for sex in her marriage. Those sincere hugs and kisses are soul soothing. The spouse hugs and kisses are nice also, but not nearly so sincere. Obviously hookers are nothing but a body. A body that's being used countless times a week and a walking bag of bacteria. O's that are fake I would imagine. Surely you jest with that suggestion

Nor is AM cheap for the man. 80% +/- of my AP's required me hosting in a very nice hotel. Thoughtful lunches, snacks,drinks and sometimes flowers to set the mood. Paying for the initial std testing for us both. Expense to AM. Missed time from work $$. That's just off the top of my head. There's nothing cheap about an affair relative to a hooker. I've had several AM affairs and I've loved em all, everyone of em. Married women that have affairs are special. All of mine have put a lot of effort into the affair. They're at the point in their lives that they're coming into themselves and beginning to understand what they desire, and the confidence to pursue it. They have plenty of expenses also. More grooming and sexy lingerie etc. All but one of my AP's were working mom's that lost $$ from work also. Ironic, but the SAHM was the hardest to coordinate with having a young child and hubby that called/texted all hours of the daytime. All of my AP's have wanted 'free' sex as much as me. Oh well, none of you want to hear about my adventures but hopefully I made my point.

Funny how you said a married woman having an affair is special. The number of self centered liars and sluts in the world kinda makes them common. Finding a loving, committed woman is difficult, so they are really the special ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:More than the cheating - I dislike men who cannot afford sex workers and want to hook up for free.

Funny how you said a married woman having an affair is special. The number of self centered liars and sluts in the world kinda makes them common. Finding a loving, committed woman is difficult, so they are really the special ones.

PP
Yes, I stick to my observation. I'm not disagreeing with you that a loving committed woman is difficult to find and also special. I was just pointing out the obvious to men that engage with Married women. In the case of single and married women that don't cheat, there is reticent behavior with men that prevents most from being dirty in the sheets. Married women that have come to terms with a desire to cheat, are also more likely to engage in much more erotic and kinky relationships in an affair. I could give lots of examples, but this is a G rated sub. Essentially, what I am saying is those sexy married women have come to eternalize their whore behavior, as morally judging people would say. Turns out, that's exactly what many married men are looking for. Don't lash out at me, I'm just reporting on a truth that's hard to hear. For example, the thread of the wife that finds her hubby disgusting for making dirty comments while she goes about her day, oblivious to the fact he's sex starved. That has never been an issue with any of my AP's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.

But disgusting morally corrupt liars just like you. And, many of these women bang anything bareback. They are playing you just like you are playing them. That thing is very used, not much different than the prostitutes that at least get paid.

I didn't see any sexy women or men on AM. Much worse than regular Hinge for single people. I matched with tons of unmarried men on Hinge many were looking for LTR and were organizing nice dates: boating, theater, flowers, even baking custom bread for me and bringing it to my home with flowers.

I don't know why any pretty woman in her right mind would be listed on AM. We have so many options with free/single men!

Because she’s married for one. Desperate 2.

And the fetish of banging someone else’s spouse. Sickos get off on that.

I have to admit, I did get a kick out of that. I always asked that she keep her rings on.

[Anonymous]

Well OP, it's time to shit or get off the pot. What have you decided ?