Other than "don't do it," any recommendations for websites to meet authentic local women seeking affairs?

[Anonymous]

Is it a two-way arrangement so your spouse can also seek somebody to have dinner with, take romantic walks after dinner with, play tennis with, and then go home and have sex with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t fall for what your LTR says, once you tell her she’ll chew you out and more. Sure she’ll be ok with it, yeah, right.
-woman

LOL, yes!

[Anonymous]

LTR?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LTR?

+1. I'm confused. OP mentions both a spouse and an LTR. OP--are you married or not?

[Anonymous]

I'm located out of state. I still find AM a goldmine after more than 10 yrs use. Don't be cheap, the app requires you to spend a little $, so what, you get sooo much more in return.
The 35-50 age range is always well stocked with hotties. You'd have to be pretty dumb to fall for any of the scammers there. Just don't be dumb and naive. The biggest problem is finding women that can legitimately get away on the regular without causing suspicion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I travel weekly to DC/NOVA, staying a couple of nights each week. I'm in a LTR, and the spouse expects that I might want to find someone who I could regularly meet up with for dinner, walks, tennis and possibly more. She says she is ok with it if I'm open about it. So, how do I meet a local person interested in this type of arrangement? I'm leery of AshleyMadison because I've heard it's a lot of fake profiles and scammers, but I have no evidence either way. Any advice on that website, or any other site? I've Googled the question, but I'm looking for insights from those who have used them.

This isn't an affair. This is called non-monogamy and you'll find those kind of people on regular dating apps. The fact you're calling it an affair shows you haven't researched this enough.

The fact he's calling it an affair shows what he's actually thinking...

Why do you think OP is a male? Seems like OP is a female.

[Anonymous]

"I'm in a LTR, and the spouse".

Explain. It's not even "my spouse".

Is OP cheating on someone they are cucking?

[Anonymous]

just assumed they said spouse to make it easier - but partner would have worked just as well, with no confusion.

[Anonymous]

Are you really this stupid? No women seeking an affair wants to, "regularly meet up for dinner, walks, tennis and possibly more." They want to hid out and have sex when they can escape for a few hours. Not run around with you in public.

You are too dumb to pursue this and your spouse (LTR? you are so confusing) would not encourage it unless she was already doing the same.

Yes, AshleyMadison is still the site for affairs but don't list yourself as in an open relationship where your spouse knows. Women AP do not want to be a third in your marriage if they are cheating. I know this from experience.

Fakes are very easy to spot on AM but again, you might be too dumb not to fall for it. Good luck, I mean that sincerely.

[Anonymous]

More than the cheating - I dislike men who cannot afford sex workers and want to hook up for free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:More than the cheating - I dislike men who cannot afford sex workers and want to hook up for free.

Why? Real question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:More than the cheating - I dislike men who cannot afford sex workers and want to hook up for free.

That's being very obstruse or naive.

I have yummy affairs because it's a girlfriend experience just like any other date. It's nice to have a connection with an attractive woman on a continuing basis that's been starving for sex in her marriage. Those sincere hugs and kisses are soul soothing. The spouse hugs and kisses are nice also, but not nearly so sincere. Obviously hookers are nothing but a body. A body that's being used countless times a week and a walking bag of bacteria. O's that are fake I would imagine. Surely you jest with that suggestion

Nor is AM cheap for the man. 80% +/- of my AP's required me hosting in a very nice hotel. Thoughtful lunches, snacks,drinks and sometimes flowers to set the mood. Paying for the initial std testing for us both. Expense to AM. Missed time from work $$. That's just off the top of my head. There's nothing cheap about an affair relative to a hooker. I've had several AM affairs and I've loved em all, everyone of em. Married women that have affairs are special. All of mine have put a lot of effort into the affair. They're at the point in their lives that they're coming into themselves and beginning to understand what they desire, and the confidence to pursue it. They have plenty of expenses also. More grooming and sexy lingerie etc. All but one of my AP's were working mom's that lost $$ from work also. Ironic, but the SAHM was the hardest to coordinate with having a young child and hubby that called/texted all hours of the daytime. All of my AP's have wanted 'free' sex as much as me. Oh well, none of you want to hear about my adventures but hopefully I made my point.

[Anonymous]

I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:More than the cheating - I dislike men who cannot afford sex workers and want to hook up for free.

That's being very obstruse or naive.

I have yummy affairs because it's a girlfriend experience just like any other date. It's nice to have a connection with an attractive woman on a continuing basis that's been starving for sex in her marriage. Those sincere hugs and kisses are soul soothing. The spouse hugs and kisses are nice also, but not nearly so sincere. Obviously hookers are nothing but a body. A body that's being used countless times a week and a walking bag of bacteria. O's that are fake I would imagine. Surely you jest with that suggestion

Nor is AM cheap for the man. 80% +/- of my AP's required me hosting in a very nice hotel. Thoughtful lunches, snacks,drinks and sometimes flowers to set the mood. Paying for the initial std testing for us both. Expense to AM. Missed time from work $$. That's just off the top of my head. There's nothing cheap about an affair relative to a hooker. I've had several AM affairs and I've loved em all, everyone of em. Married women that have affairs are special. All of mine have put a lot of effort into the affair. They're at the point in their lives that they're coming into themselves and beginning to understand what they desire, and the confidence to pursue it. They have plenty of expenses also. More grooming and sexy lingerie etc. All but one of my AP's were working mom's that lost $$ from work also. Ironic, but the SAHM was the hardest to coordinate with having a young child and hubby that called/texted all hours of the daytime. All of my AP's have wanted 'free' sex as much as me. Oh well, none of you want to hear about my adventures but hopefully I made my point.

You are a fake troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a single woman. Once I went to check AM out of curiosity and was hoping to find a hot man in open marriage for kinky sex. I saw zero "hotties" there, everyone - men and women - were ugly.

You miss, are the troll. For one, once you sign up as a F looking for M, then you don't get to peruse the F's.

IDK about how hot the men are. I can tell you that most of the women are above average that I have affaired with. A couple of my AP's were very HOT, sexy as Hell.