Other than "don't do it," any recommendations for websites to meet authentic local women seeking affairs?

[Anonymous]

I travel weekly to DC/NOVA, staying a couple of nights each week. I'm in a LTR, and the spouse expects that I might want to find someone who I could regularly meet up with for dinner, walks, tennis and possibly more. She says she is ok with it if I'm open about it. So, how do I meet a local person interested in this type of arrangement? I'm leery of AshleyMadison because I've heard it's a lot of fake profiles and scammers, but I have no evidence either way. Any advice on that website, or any other site? I've Googled the question, but I'm looking for insights from those who have used them.

[Anonymous]

Don’t fall for what your LTR says, once you tell her she’ll chew you out and more. Sure she’ll be ok with it, yeah, right.
-woman

[Anonymous]

What’s all this dinner, walk nonsense? You’re looking for women to bang. Reddit has forums for hookups.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I travel weekly to DC/NOVA, staying a couple of nights each week. I'm in a LTR, and the spouse expects that I might want to find someone who I could regularly meet up with for dinner, walks, tennis and possibly more. She says she is ok with it if I'm open about it. So, how do I meet a local person interested in this type of arrangement? I'm leery of AshleyMadison because I've heard it's a lot of fake profiles and scammers, but I have no evidence either way. Any advice on that website, or any other site? I've Googled the question, but I'm looking for insights from those who have used them.

This isn't an affair. This is called non-monogomy and you'll find those kind of people on regular dating apps. The fact you're calling it an affair shows you haven't researched this enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I travel weekly to DC/NOVA, staying a couple of nights each week. I'm in a LTR, and the spouse expects that I might want to find someone who I could regularly meet up with for dinner, walks, tennis and possibly more. She says she is ok with it if I'm open about it. So, how do I meet a local person interested in this type of arrangement? I'm leery of AshleyMadison because I've heard it's a lot of fake profiles and scammers, but I have no evidence either way. Any advice on that website, or any other site? I've Googled the question, but I'm looking for insights from those who have used them.

This isn't an affair. This is called non-monogamy and you'll find those kind of people on regular dating apps. The fact you're calling it an affair shows you haven't researched this enough.

The fact he's calling it an affair shows what he's actually thinking...

[Anonymous]

I don’t believe your spouse is cool with this.

What do you look like? Age? $$?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t fall for what your LTR says, once you tell her she’ll chew you out and more. Sure she’ll be ok with it, yeah, right.
-woman

Or just don’t tell and enjoy.

[Anonymous]

Why does your spouse want to risk losing you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t fall for what your LTR says, once you tell her she’ll chew you out and more. Sure she’ll be ok with it, yeah, right.
-woman

Or just don’t tell and enjoy.

This is what I meant, yes

[Anonymous]

seekingarrangements.com

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t believe your spouse is cool with this.

What do you look like? Age? $$?

Or his spouse is sleeping with someone or wants to sleep with someone on the nights he's away.

[Anonymous]

Authentic people don’t sleep with married people.

Please re-phrase. Maybe: how can I hook up on the regular in DC without paying?

[Anonymous]

Tinder.

[Anonymous]

Elementary school car loop during dismissal.

Just hang out until one comes through that you like.

Not creepy at all in this area.

[Anonymous]

Alcohol anonymous meeting.

NA meetings