Should I continue dating?

[Anonymous]

There's a reason OP is 39 and still single....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh boy I'm f**d. I'm divorced and only make $112k. I guess I shouldn't even try dating. I thought women had their own money and don't care.

What's the minimum income required to date a woman?

In this town you won't find a single woman to date you. At least not the ones on this forum. Unless you make min $250k you stand no chance. Even at $250k you won't be competitive.

Then the college you attended matter as well. And God forbid you skipped grad school well you are just illiterate at that point

Wouldn't a man with a prestigious school's grad degree and earnings >$250k expect similar or better?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh boy I'm f**d. I'm divorced and only make $112k. I guess I shouldn't even try dating. I thought women had their own money and don't care.

What's the minimum income required to date a woman?

If you have to ask you can’t afford it 😂

Lol you damn right. Hey at least the good news I am aware and won't waste my time. I'm not delusional. Now I haven't had trouble getting p**y though. For now that's all I want. For relationship I'm probably too broke lol

[Anonymous]

Why would he date a 39 year old in a lower income group?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh boy I'm f**d. I'm divorced and only make $112k. I guess I shouldn't even try dating. I thought women had their own money and don't care.

What's the minimum income required to date a woman?

In this town you won't find a single woman to date you. At least not the ones on this forum. Unless you make min $250k you stand no chance. Even at $250k you won't be competitive.

Then the college you attended matter as well. And God forbid you skipped grad school well you are just illiterate at that point

Wouldn't a man with a prestigious school's grad degree and earnings >$250k expect similar or better?

No. Not at all. Women make income cutoff a much bigger deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh boy I'm f**d. I'm divorced and only make $112k. I guess I shouldn't even try dating. I thought women had their own money and don't care.

What's the minimum income required to date a woman?

In this town you won't find a single woman to date you. At least not the ones on this forum. Unless you make min $250k you stand no chance. Even at $250k you won't be competitive.

Then the college you attended matter as well. And God forbid you skipped grad school well you are just illiterate at that point

Hopefully they want someone who make $250k and spend $150k as opposed to someone who makes $250k spends $260k and shows up in a G wagon.

Hopefully they are intelligent enough to know not every high income is good with money as well.

Maybe just make a guy who makes $100k but maxes out his Roth and 401k may be attractive.

[Anonymous]

The issue is not his income. It’s his age relative his salary.
I would be fine dating a man who is exact my age or slightly younger if he makes same money. But it’s totally unacceptable that OP is 10 years younger and he’s already at height of his earning potential and is making less.

Marriage is a financial contract: is he a good partner ? Can he pull off more weight on the house front while you both continue working full time ?

[Anonymous]

My husband makes half my income so I don't think that's a deal breaker. He has more flexibility and takes on more at home and with childcare (like with school delayed and possibly closing tomorrow, he will handle it). And yes, you can raise a child on a combined income of $250-300k ::

But if you haven't even talked about whether he wants to have another kid...why not, OP?! This is time sensitive information for you. Better to know sooner rather than later if the answer isn't one you like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband makes half my income so I don't think that's a deal breaker. He has more flexibility and takes on more at home and with childcare (like with school delayed and possibly closing tomorrow, he will handle it). And yes, you can raise a child on a combined income of $250-300k ::

But if you haven't even talked about whether he wants to have another kid...why not, OP?! This is time sensitive information for you. Better to know sooner rather than later if the answer isn't one you like.

Is your husband also 10 years older than you ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The issue is not his income. It’s his age relative his salary.

This^. If he was young 30 year old making $130k with potential to advance, had a good credit score and no debt or responsibility, he would be financially fine.

He is 48, divorced, recovered alcoholic, adoptive dad of two with low chance to improve finances and may have debt and/or bad credit and child support.

[Anonymous]

For all we know he isn't interested in marrying a nearly 40 yr old who only earns $150k and wants him to have 50% responsibility of raising a kid for 18 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh boy I'm f**d. I'm divorced and only make $112k. I guess I shouldn't even try dating. I thought women had their own money and don't care.

What's the minimum income required to date a woman?

Also divorced. I was making that in my early 30s. I am late 40s. I make 200k; a man I date should make what I make. A man for fun is when I don’t care about money. But a relationship? You better bring at least what I bring.

[Anonymous]

A 20k difference is nothing. That is not the issue. The issue is that he is too old and you are 39 and running out of time. Go to a sperm bank if you wanna get, but you better move your family or get a second job because you’re not gonna be able to raise one on your salary in this area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh boy I'm f**d. I'm divorced and only make $112k. I guess I shouldn't even try dating. I thought women had their own money and don't care.

What's the minimum income required to date a woman?

Also divorced. I was making that in my early 30s. I am late 40s. I make 200k; a man I date should make what I make. A man for fun is when I don’t care about money. But a relationship? You better bring at least what I bring.

Yea I don’t know where all these low paid US born men are crawling under. And what they were all doing between there birth and age 50 in the US where money is like dirt under your feet.
I had an immigrant come from Wayfair to assemble furniture last week. The dude says he was making $120k working part time. He came to the US 2 years ago

[Anonymous]

You want to have a child with some 50 year old divorced loser?

No. No. No.

His sperm will put your child at high risk of abnormalities. Find a younger man to have children with.