There could be some differences but it does boil down to wealth or lack of wealth. No need to be defensive. DP |
Objecting to the reductive is not defensive. |
Can you give some examples of differences not tied to SES status? |
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High SES status is an advantage, not the disadvantage posited in the OP.
One advantage it affords is the ability to send one's kids to schools where the main focus isn't merely getting kids to pass SOLs and graduate, which tends to drag down all the students and keep top students from reaching their full potential. PP knows this, which is why they argued for "balancing" the wealth and poverty at different schools, a form of overt social engineering that FCPS eschews despite its occasional left-leaning rhetoric. |
Almost all differences relate back to wealth or lack of wealth. |
Assuming this to be true, one of these differences is the differences in school cultures. Few believe that, as a general proposition, if you take two kids from families with similar financial resources, the one attending a lower SES school will fare better. There may be exceptions, of course. But you're tilting at windmills if you want to claim higher SES people are behaving irrationally when it comes to selecting school pyramids. |
Bad culture is a product of poverty. Low SES schools are dealing with the byproducts of poverty which can spiral into all kinds of issues. |
I'm not so certain that poverty alone ties into bad culture. After all, so far this year, I've gotten a notice of a student overdose death at WSHS, as well as a gun incident involving WSHS and LBSS students that resulted in strict screening for all football games. I wasn't aware that poverty was a problem at WSHS or LBSS, but there are issues there regardless. |
My brother and I were from a poor single mother home. My mother had addiction problems. We went to very good schools on athletic scholarship. Completely on our own financially and otherwise. The challenge we faced wasn’t in going away to college or not having family understand the demands (our mother had no idea of our majors or studies). The primary challenge was in making the right choices given the considerable freedoms we enjoyed. Athletics may have helped, but we quickly on our own discovered we despite appearances were not talented enough for any drugs or alcohol. Too much threat to fragile immune systems under intense training. Plus the motivation not to look stupid academically in front of wealthy classmates was powerful. No social life though. The next biggest challenge was in being a bit behind academically. Only one way to catch up and you have to work for it. My honors adviser flat out told me that catching up was a function of how much ego damage one could sustain. In an era of safe spaces, query how many students are given this message today? I knew that university was going to change the trajectory of my life. Indeed that happened. From a distance one could observe athletics was a great social program for low SES types like us. You have to make it work for you as opposed to letting the system work you. |
Let’s not become irrational. Even wealthy private schools have some discipline issues. But concentrations of poverty are tied to higher crime, etc. If you think WSHS and LBSS have bad cultures you should send your kid to Herndon. |
Or, the system could be fixed. |
Says who? Signed, a Justice parent. |
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Says FCPS. Justice had 1 NMSF this year. Langley had 23. |
Control for wealth and that’s probably equal |