Things not to say to a new mother…
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Anonymous
Nothing wrong with asking that. |
Anonymous
| To mixed race when I was picking her up from aftercare: "That's not your mom, she's not white" |
Anonymous
My sis in law is mixed and got this all the time too. People would insist she couldn't be the mother of a blonde baby. Mind you, her mom is blonde. |
Anonymous
| Can you feel your let down? |
Anonymous
Do what my SIL did. She called my brother over and yelled honey, Aunt Madge wants to know when you plan to put your P in my V. Kid’s 18 and this is still a legend. |
Anonymous
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“ I can’t imagine having kids so close in age” |
Anonymous
“ I thought your mom/dad was white “ Imagine folks insisting your kids are mixed race when they’re not. We just correct. Over and over and over. |
Anonymous
Not yet. Give it time. |
Anonymous
Ah, an offender has entered the chat. These comments are rude and you should stop! |
Anonymous
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About DC- All that beautiful hair is going to fail out! (It did not).
When are you having more? Did you only want just the one? (When due to post partum hemorrhage and emergency surgery after delivery I can no longer have more). Starting everything with “first time mom, or new mom” and belittling every concern and question. |
Anonymous
My favorite are people who try to defend touching stranger's stomachs or (worse IMO) trying to touch stranger's babies. No touching! |
Anonymous
| Get over your super sensitivity or you will spend an inordinate amount of time upset. |
Anonymous
Grab-her-by-the-belly has entered the chat. |
Anonymous
No, I wanted a puppy. That’s why we did it Doggy Style. What a disappointment! |
Anonymous
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When’s the baby due?
I really was asked that a week post partum |