Have you ever buried something for your spouse?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. He had explained ED in his 20s early in our relationship that eventually went away. I didn’t bring it up until the very end of our relationship (separated now)and flung it in his face out of spite. He denied that it ever happened and said I was crazy. It’s made me wonder what was really going on back then.

I have a list of other stuff I want to bring up that I’ve buried that I’m going to dig up when the time is right and we have a final settlement. Some of it is stuff I was expected to ignore and other stuff are things he thought I never knew and buried for himself.

So glad he's well shot of you, PP. Why would you attack someone for something that's not their fault? Should we do the same to you?

[Anonymous]

True story, that I've told before.

Mafia family in Europe. Wives keep a lot of secrets. Husband shows up to a big family wedding with his new mistress, sans wife. This is a big social no-no (you can have a mistress, but you don't brazenly show up with her to a Catholic church wedding). Husband then somehow is persuaded to still go on family boat vacation on Mediterranean, with grown sons and wife. Is lost at sea during the night. Police poke around then close the case rapidly.

Tragic loss. Dangers of sea voyages, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. He had explained ED in his 20s early in our relationship that eventually went away. I didn’t bring it up until the very end of our relationship (separated now)and flung it in his face out of spite. He denied that it ever happened and said I was crazy. It’s made me wonder what was really going on back then.

I have a list of other stuff I want to bring up that I’ve buried that I’m going to dig up when the time is right and we have a final settlement. Some of it is stuff I was expected to ignore and other stuff are things he thought I never knew and buried for himself.

So glad he's well shot of you, PP. Why would you attack someone for something that's not their fault? Should we do the same to you?

When it is from severe excessive pornography use and self-pleasuring that he confessed later and then pretended he hadn’t, I think it’s fair game and not like a disability that should get protected status.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:True story, that I've told before.

Mafia family in Europe. Wives keep a lot of secrets. Husband shows up to a big family wedding with his new mistress, sans wife. This is a big social no-no (you can have a mistress, but you don't brazenly show up with her to a Catholic church wedding). Husband then somehow is persuaded to still go on family boat vacation on Mediterranean, with grown sons and wife. Is lost at sea during the night. Police poke around then close the case rapidly.

Tragic loss. Dangers of sea voyages, etc.

This is why I don’t go on cruises.

[Anonymous]

If you learn anything from “Goodfellas,” it’s to always have a shovel and a bag of lime in your trunk. Because, you know, things happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thread title made me think of the Sopranos.

Same. I'm thinking of people literally burying "something."

I bury my penis , balls deep.
Every other night

A picture is worth a thousand words.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Walked in on her wearing a $trap0n having $ex with another woman. She saw me and I never brought it up.

The only proper thing to say in that situation is “Honey, have you seen the remote?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. He had explained ED in his 20s early in our relationship that eventually went away. I didn’t bring it up until the very end of our relationship (separated now)and flung it in his face out of spite. He denied that it ever happened and said I was crazy. It’s made me wonder what was really going on back then.

I have a list of other stuff I want to bring up that I’ve buried that I’m going to dig up when the time is right and we have a final settlement. Some of it is stuff I was expected to ignore and other stuff are things he thought I never knew and buried for himself.

So glad he's well shot of you, PP. Why would you attack someone for something that's not their fault? Should we do the same to you?

When it is from severe excessive pornography use and self-pleasuring that he confessed later and then pretended he hadn’t, I think it’s fair game and not like a disability that should get protected status.

I agree with PP here. There's a difference between your spouse/partner coming to you with the truth and asking for you to cover, and you finding out some bs they're going to play headgames about, deny, etc. Lying (directly or by omission) is 100% the liar's fault.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Walked in on her wearing a $trap0n having $ex with another woman. She saw me and I never brought it up.

The only proper thing to say in that situation is “Honey, have you seen the remote?”