Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4

Anonymous
Maybe the other 8” are elsewhere?
Anonymous
So you think you can do better basically.
Anonymous
If he checks all the other boxes, I would seriously consider him, OP. You don't meet a "great career, smart and nice personality and emotionally available" every day!

I'm 5'4", my husband is 5'6", my adult son is 5'5" and my teen daughter is 5'1". I know that your kids might be quite short. But there's more to life than height.
Anonymous
Crawl back into your dumpster, OP
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I’m petite I don’t want a petite man too!! He should at least be 5’8!


You do realize that you’re getting a bit long in the tooth to have all your demands met, right? You’re almost 40. Enjoying remaining single, I guess.


Yeah, girl. You're hitting your sell-by date. Go ahead and wait for the giant you know is out there are ready to pounce on your petite self.
Anonymous
Why are you with someone who you aren't attracted to. Leading people on and messing with their heads is a bad choice and a sign of a person with poor intergrity. Man or woman.

Anonymous
He sounds great. He will be so grateful and worship you
Anonymous
Serious advice here. If you are not sexually attracted to him, then don't pursue it. If you are sexually attracted to him but reluctant because he's short, then go for it.

I'm a.man. I'm usually not attracted to fat women. But once in a while, something clicks. Certain personalities or shapes get me going, to my surprise. You may actually find a few short guys attractive.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Serious advice here. If you are not sexually attracted to him, then don't pursue it. If you are sexually attracted to him but reluctant because he's short, then go for it.

I'm a.man. I'm usually not attracted to fat women. But once in a while, something clicks. Certain personalities or shapes get me going, to my surprise. You may actually find a few short guys attractive.


Very true and nuanced response.
Anonymous
My cousin is 4'10" and ber boyfriend is 6'4". Who cares. Except you 🤷‍♀️
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My cousin is 4'10" and ber boyfriend is 6'4". Who cares. Except you 🤷‍♀️


PP. "Her" not ber..
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We are 39 and 41


You're 5'1" and 39 OP, 5'4" is not a big deal.

I'm 5'9" and my DH is 5'5".
Anonymous
Maybe this guy will be on here posting about her bra size being too small or something.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You’re too old to let petty shit like that get in the way of being with a great guy. But you should probably cut him loose because he deserves better than your shallow self.


+1
Anonymous
OP, the guy is taller than you by a few inches. What's your issue? I have actually also met a great 5'4" guy, however I'm 5'9". Now, sadly, that doesn't work.
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