Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
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Anonymous
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I met this great guy on the apps. Great career, smart and nice personality and emotionally available! however he’s 5’4.
I’m 5’1 and don’t find such short men to be attractive! We have great conversations and connect on a lot so I met him 3 times …but don’t know what to do now. |
Anonymous
| How old are you? |
Anonymous
| We are 39 and 41 |
Anonymous
| You’re too old to let petty shit like that get in the way of being with a great guy. But you should probably cut him loose because he deserves better than your shallow self. |
Anonymous
| Leave him. He deserves to be someone who is not as shallow as you are. |
Anonymous
| You're 5'1' and 39 so you need to get over yourself. |
Anonymous
| Think of it this way: 1. 5'4" guy you like or 2. stay single? Totally up to you and maybe there is no wrong answer, but I think you need to decide at your age which is more important to you: Height or possibly giving up a chance to be in a relationship. Objectively, if you are 39 or 41, there just are not as many opportunities to find a long-term partner. Totally fine to be single! Just also figure out the reason you are elevating height over companionship. |
Anonymous
| Have you met up in person yet? |
Anonymous
| Then let him go to the fabulous woman who appreciates him. Really tired of women complaining about short men; be less shallow or don't waste their time. -woman who has dated 6', 5'6, never cared |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| If you don’t find him attractive then don’t go through the motions—don’t waste his time. |
Anonymous
| Babe you're 5' 1" . Be realistic. |
Anonymous
| There is a reason why you are single OR you ver very bored and that's unfortunate. |
Anonymous
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Why is height always so important for women?
Even short women reject men because of their height. It doesn’t matter that they are taller than them. |
Anonymous
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5'1" shorty is looking for genetic material.
So did my sibling. Ended up with a million dollar divorce and the kids from that union don't speak to sibling. |