Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re too old to let petty shit like that get in the way of being with a great guy. But you should probably cut him loose because he deserves better than your shallow self.

This PP is a MAGA.

All of you pushing the lie “height does not matter!” are just a bunch of MAGAs pushing a MAGA lie.

Every normal woman knows and accepts that a guy’s hight matters.

[Anonymous]

I think MAGA women are the ones who come across as vain

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.

I agree with every bit of this except the very end. The 5'4 guy would be much less likely to cheat because way less women would be willing to cheat with him.

He only needs one woman to be willing cheat with him!

Kevin Hart

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You’re too old to let petty shit like that get in the way of being with a great guy. But you should probably cut him loose because he deserves better than your shallow self.

This PP is a MAGA.

All of you pushing the lie “height does not matter!” are just a bunch of MAGAs pushing a MAGA lie.

Every normal woman knows and accepts that a guy’s hight matters.

And you decide who a "normal woman" is? GTFO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think MAGA women are the ones who come across as vain

Really? Care to re-think that??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met this great guy on the apps. Great career, smart and nice personality and emotionally available! however he’s 5’4.

I’m 5’1 and don’t find such short men to be attractive! We have great conversations and connect on a lot so I met him 3 times …but don’t know what to do now.

The height doesn’t matter, and you’re shorter than him. My question would be, how long have you been dating? I’ve met my share of guys who seemed emotionally available at first and then completely shellfish and unable to maintain a certain level of emotional vulnerability. I would focus on that rather than hi height.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.

I agree with every bit of this except the very end. The 5'4 guy would be much less likely to cheat because way less women would be willing to cheat with him.

He only needs one woman to be willing cheat with him!

Yeah but it's a needle in a haystack for the 5'4 guy, while it's a click of a button for a 6'4 guy. So given the reality of temptation, you can probably find the 5'4 guy more reliable. Unfortunately it's the same reason why he's less attractive in the first place.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.

I agree with every bit of this except the very end. The 5'4 guy would be much less likely to cheat because way less women would be willing to cheat with him.

He only needs one woman to be willing cheat with him!

Yeah but it's a needle in a haystack for the 5'4 guy, while it's a click of a button for a 6'4 guy. So given the reality of temptation, you can probably find the 5'4 guy more reliable. Unfortunately it's the same reason why he's less attractive in the first place.

You're using pure logic to explain the illogical. You need to account for motivation. Ugly men, short men, and broke men are extremely insecure about their lack of status in comparison to other men. They almost invariably seek to prove themselves by making passes at large numbers of women. The 6'4 guy is more attractive to many more women, but is more secure and discriminating. He's not making passes at literally any twitching skirt. The 5'4 guy makes many more attempts and will take whoever will have him when it comes to a roll in the sack. It's about temporarily silencing that voice that reminds him he's less than. That's why the 5'4 guy is more likely to cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope he reads this thread, realizes it’s you, and moves on. What an incredibly petty thing.

Do you call men petty for dating women who they are physically attracted to?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think MAGA women are the ones who come across as vain

Really? Care to re-think that??

That sums up the reality, for most women in the USA, for better or worse.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope he reads this thread, realizes it’s you, and moves on. What an incredibly petty thing.

Do you call men petty for dating women who they are physically attracted to?

I certainly wouldn’t drop someone based on whether or not they were shorter or taller than me!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope he reads this thread, realizes it’s you, and moves on. What an incredibly petty thing.

Do you call men petty for dating women who they are physically attracted to?

I certainly wouldn’t drop someone based on whether or not they were shorter or taller than me!

Perhaps, but they won’t date you if you’re an A cup and they like big boobs.

Everyone has physical preferences, but only women are told that theirs are petty.

You can pretend to like short men, but your pick me tendencies just perpetuate the patriarchy and leave you dating men you’re not even attracted to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.

X 1,000. Would OP get called shallow if they were a man who didn’t want to date a 5’ 300 pound woman? People are attracted to what they’re attracted to. Short men are to women what fat women with small bust sizes and flat butts are to men. It is what it is. Deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.

X 1,000. Would OP get called shallow if they were a man who didn’t want to date a 5’ 300 pound woman? People are attracted to what they’re attracted to. Short men are to women what fat women with small bust sizes and flat butts are to men. It is what it is. Deal.

And every single time this comes up - you can't change your height. You CAN change your weight/workout etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.

X 1,000. Would OP get called shallow if they were a man who didn’t want to date a 5’ 300 pound woman? People are attracted to what they’re attracted to. Short men are to women what fat women with small bust sizes and flat butts are to men. It is what it is. Deal.

And every single time this comes up - you can't change your height. You CAN change your weight/workout etc.

So change 300 pounds to being ugly or an A cup.