Did your ex spouse end up with someone less or more attractive than you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex H would probably say that I ended up with someone less attractive but hes smarter, infinitely more emotionally intelligent, adventurous, kind, safe, stable, best sex I've ever had, funny, and makes over 40x what my ex did. And I am happy as a f---ing clam.

Next time a woman tells you she doesn't care about how much you make she is lying to you

[Anonymous]

My ex married someone more attractive. But 2 years later divorced a second time. I think she was embarrassed cause she tried to keep it as a secret still wearing her ring etc.

[Anonymous]

I don't think women care about look. At least judging from the men they choose to marry a lot clearly don:t care about looks.

[Anonymous]

I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

They don't exist. Try to meet a boring-ish woman half way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
And with women if you have the right words they will fall for you just like that. I am not saying women don't care about look. They do. But they are more likely to compromise on look if you are crazy about them and make them feel like the most important woman in the world

So true! Women are pathetic and starved for love. Guys, if you only knew how easy it is to get them.

Signed, a women guilty of the above

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

NP woman here. Yes, women who want to spend time at home with their partner do exist, plenty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex H would probably say that I ended up with someone less attractive but hes smarter, infinitely more emotionally intelligent, adventurous, kind, safe, stable, best sex I've ever had, funny, and makes over 40x what my ex did. And I am happy as a f---ing clam.

Next time a woman tells you she doesn't care about how much you make she is lying to you

I've never met a woman who would even claim that she does not care about theguy's income.

[Anonymous]

my ex is with someone less attractive. I am grateful to her for taking him off my hands and keeping him occupied so he doesn't bother me while I get on with raising our kid.

[Anonymous]

No idea if my ex is seeing anyone, I don't really care.

I'm dating someone 16 years younger than he is, makes more money, and is WAY hotter. But more importantly, we have the same values and beliefs about relationships. BF believes in open communication and growth, xH believed everyone just needed to shut up and leave him alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

They don't exist. Try to meet a boring-ish woman half way.

They do exist, but they are rare. Women do indeed want to do stuff all the time whether they are 25 or 85. That's just how women are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No idea if my ex is seeing anyone, I don't really care.

I'm dating someone 16 years younger than he is, makes more money, and is WAY hotter. But more importantly, we have the same values and beliefs about relationships. BF believes in open communication and growth, xH believed everyone just needed to shut up and leave him alone.

Why does every single post from a woman makes the point that the guy she is NOW dating makes more money. It keeps coming up over and over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

Yes! They exist! I’m one of them. Love being at home. But the problem is… they are hard to find because they are… at home. I met my DH the night my friend dragged me out to a party.

[Anonymous]

Less, but I am the one who initiated the divorce (no kids).