Does your DH playfully smack you on the butt? Is it annoying or appreciated?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me angry angry angry.

Are you an uptight lass in general?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's annoying. But when he doesn't do it, I wonder if he's mad. It's only annoying because I'm usually already overstimulated.

[Anonymous]

Yes and I would be worried if he stopped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

[Anonymous]

I playfully smack him on the butt, too. What’s wrong with that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mine cops a feel lol. I think it’s funny and kinda cool that he still likes my butt.

right answer

brt she is happily married too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

men that are attracted to their wives, sexually.

[Anonymous]

if she doesn't like it then leave her alone. She could be pissy, grumpy on that day and probably not happy with herself. I like it when my husband does it and I never snapped at him.

[Anonymous]

That was one of the reasons I divorced. I was a SA victim (many times over) and it would send me into an absolute panic attack anytime he'd unexpectedly smack my butt. I asked him to stop, sobbed but he never stopped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me angry angry angry.

why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

most men do, including me. if you don't like it that is totally fine. if you would actually punch your husband in the face, you have issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That was one of the reasons I divorced. I was a SA victim (many times over) and it would send me into an absolute panic attack anytime he'd unexpectedly smack my butt. I asked him to stop, sobbed but he never stopped.

Ugh. I love physical affection but hate being grabbed or smacked. Hugs yes, smacks no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

most men do, including me. if you don't like it that is totally fine. if you would actually punch your husband in the face, you have issues.

Hitting someone from behind is arguably an issue on your part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Silly question I know, but recently got into a discussion about this with other couple friends and trying to widen the survey.

No and if he ever did I’d turn around and punch him in the face my father raised me well

Who does this?

men that are attracted to their wives, sexually.

Hopefully you know enough that your sexual attraction does not entitle you to do things she doesn’t like. right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I annoys the crap out of me if he did it when I am bent over doing a chore or something. I have told him to ask first - it can be nice if I am expecting it.

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