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Strangely enough part of the issue is as someone mentioned disability rights. Under many circumstances those who are mentally ill can refuse help and you can only do forced help for limited time. That person could even have a family who did everything they could legally. |
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I would call adult protective services and see what advice they have.
Disability rights are such a mixed bag-of course we want those with disabilities to have rights, but it also means they have the right to self-destruct. I have a mentally ill aunt. When her mental health was getting scary because she wasn't taking meds I expressed concern to her and her doctors. To punish me she blocked me from all health information. Luckily I convinced her to agree to an expensive social worker who is trained and very well paid to deal with this. That person at least makes sure her condo (which dad bought) does not fall into disarray and she is still managing independent living. She also has convinced her before to go back on meds. I only know this because my sibling who isn't involved but is still allowed to be informed told me. If my father had left us money for this expensive service, we would have to rely on whatever is provided free through the government. We make sure the neighbors know what to do as well. She has been fired by so many doctors due to behavior. She threatened my life the last time I tried to intervene. |
Ask Irina Zarutskaya, she might have some tips for you on how to act in this situation. |
Because, a lot of people with mental health issues refuse medication saying they don’t need it and they are fine. You can’t forcefully medicate them so it seems the compromise is unless they are danger to others or themselves you leave them alone. |
There isn’t a podunk town that doesn’t have police on the streets 24/7. |
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In a “podunk town” the “firefighters” are actually Fire/Rescue. They’re the only fire trucks and ambulances for miles and miles.
If the police station was closed, and Fire/Rescue wouldn’t help, who responded to the 911 call? |
Under this logic we should allow suicidal people to go forward with their suicide plans. |
The poster's use of the word "podunk" to describe a small town reveals her true views, as if large cities like NYC do any better. |
I had a neighbor who rented her apartment to a schizophrenic guy who just came out of transitional housing. He was OK when on his meds, but he decided to go off. He was young and had a mom who lived nearby. The mom was a big tenants rights and disability rights figure. As he devolved into worse and worse behavior which involved lots of property damage, the landlord tried to get the mother involved. The mother would only attack and threaten - the police, the firemen, anyone who was called in to deal with his madness. She would show up, threaten, then leave him alone in his madness. My entire building was scared of him and thankfully his lease was only 6 months. But it felt like a very long 6 months. The mother basically did not see him as her responsibility at all but the responsibility of society at large. That's why he was in transitional housing and why he ended up in an apartment by himself. The family had no sense of responsibility over him. My e |
Yeah it's interesting. That is where the red line is. If that same person threatens suicide and has a plan or threatens homicide and has a plan then they can be hospitalized. It's slowly killing yourself through choices that doesn't qualify that easily. It's very sad and very complicated. It's painful for families too who want to help. |
| This is all fake news. |
There are an infinite actions between not caring and having a person put in a facility... you know, right? If we cared we would have them under care, not a mental hospital, where someone helped people we are dysregulated and can't manage normal tasks. We would check on them daily, help them with showers, make sure they take medication, make sure they ate. But that's expensive and not covered by health insurance. |
| They should be in jail |
| I wouldn’t have done anything or called anyone. I would’ve just gone about my day. |