DP. It's an overestimate. But people often don't realize how much they spend on hobbies. People often buy a lot of used stuff - truck, saddle, run-down but weatherproof barn. I'd look more at the lower estimate for a showing hobby that's not focused on high-price horses. |
No, it’s an underestimate. I don’t think you can find decent pasture board in the DC area for under $500-600 month and that was when I left in 2008, it’s probably more now. $3k a year per horse is not possible. A few acres with a barn and arena anywhere in DMV is going to run at least $800k. We don’t use “pipe” fencing in this area, that is for California and other desert regions where they run mare motels. An average show horse is close to six figures now, and one show often costs $3k without all the trainer splits. For one horse. |
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How long is a piece of string?
At a bare minimum, you’re looking at $1,500 per horse per month for board/vet/farrier at a barn within an hour of the Beltway. Add in training, special care (clipping, blankets, grooming, tacking and untacking, special snowflake feed or turnout, chiropractic, massage…), complex shoeing needs, or regular supplements/meds and you could easily double that figure without even trying. Budget saving an additional $10k a year for A Very Special Vet Visit because horses. The year you don’t spend it on a nasty cut, dramatic lameness, Lyme treatment, or chasing down some vague sense of unease, you can transfer it to Dover to spend on lost, broken or new tack. Blanket repair or replacement. A new bit or three to try. Saddle fitting to address the lameness and/or vague sense of unease. Buying a new set of fly boots every week between April and October because the barn staff puts them on in a hurry and they disappear in the back 40. The “doing stuff” line item can be as little as a tank of gas to go ride the trails at area local/state/national parks (once you’ve bought a truck and trailer, of course), or as much as $5-7k per weekend to do a high-level show. In between, you’ve got clinics ($150-$500), local shows ($200-$1,000, depending on discipline), foxhunting (~$2,500 for a family subscription, plus additional for donations and other activities), and a host of other things. Bear in mind that this doesn’t include the actual acquisition cost of the horse(s). That price can range from free to Bill Gates, depending on connections, talent, riding discipline, etc. If you like this woman and like the world she moves in (Olympian equestrians are cool until you ask them about their coke habits, infidelity episodes, challenges with human relationships, and/or eating disorders), ask her what her goals are for her and her horse(s). Add a zero to any budget figure she casually tosses out. |
Depends on board costs. Roughly $50K for one annually. 70K for 2-3 due to price breaks. |
I own a boarding barn and don’t give price breaks. It costs the same to feed and care for a horse whether its owner owns another horse or not. Discounting makes no sense and high end barns do not do it. |
| OP, I’d get to know her real well first. Is she looking for a sugar daddy? She wants a guy who will let her quit work so she can play? |
| I knew a woman who had purchased a horse for her child that rode. Ultimately, she gave the horse away for free. A horse is worse than a time share! |
| Time to trot out that cliche. If you have to ask you can’t afford it. |
This is dumb. Many people have shared different stories in this thread from dual fed and teacher income to multi-millionaires. |
Agreed. I could be wrong but I also get the sense OP is loaded. |
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I’m a woman how can you be so dumb to continue to be with this “lady” she wants to be a kept woman? She probably watched elegance and high value men instagrams. Pathetic. You can do better.
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Yes, you can lease a horse, and even acquire a partial lease for the right to ride a horse for a set number of hours per month. This is probably the most practical option for folks who don't know how to care for a horse. They're delicate animals, despite their size. We boarded our horses for a variety of reasons. We were lucky to have a wonderful, wonderful person who loved and cared for them like they were children. They have both passed away, the second one this past summer. We no longer have boarding fees. Instead of driving porsches, we drove practical vehicles. Our kid the rider never even rode them anymore, but we have a policy of not turning our backs on our four legged family members, so that was that. I'm very sad about the death of our last horse, as he was not terribly old (mid twenties). The sadness is somewhat assuaged by not having the boarding fees any longer. |
We owned a showjumper when my teen rode. The numbers here are accurate. Think of acquiring horses like buying cars. You can spend 20K, 50k, or 200K. You'll get what you pay for. But also don't overbuy if you don't have a skills for a high level horse you don't need to spend that much. |
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Thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars
It can be like buying a new 50K car every year |
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The owner of our barn was able to make it work and keep a number of school horses because it was her barn, and she didn’t keep up insurance on her horses. She basically said no barn owner does, because it would put them out of business.
I think I remember paying $3500 a year to insure a horse that cost $50K but then as soon something goes off with them like colic or laminitis, they no longer cover any more major medical, you’re still going to be paying 1000s in vet fees and you’re not getting reimbursed for it beyond the one time … and no one wants to buy your horse. I think with our last horse we spent maybe 25K on a horse that couldn’t show or be jumped or lessoned on for up to 18 months. In the end I just told my ex to handle it because I hit the wall. I still have not asked how it was “handled” I estimate conservatively that we spent around half a million dollars over 15 years. It’s hard to imagine what we could have had with that money to straight up invest. It did help that our daughter did not end up going to traditional college and instead went to community college for large animal vet tech. She goes to school 3 days a week and works 3 days a week. So there was at least a certain purpose to it. Also she didn’t break her neck. She did get her teeth kicked out while hot walking a pony for her friend on vacation, right after getting her braces, but we caught a break on that since her uncle is an orthodontist. She had to get braces twice, but they were free. |