Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Consider thinking about the type of women you are attracted to and why. It seems like these women are highly conscientious - Often responsible, safety-oriented, and detail-minded. They also seem highly Neurotic - worried about if you are cheating or in an accident. That's a lot of worry. They are highly Agreeable - They value emotional closeness, mutual care, and cooperation.
I think you are much less Agreeable. You are a bit confrontational, at least in your writing and very defensive.
You are less Open and have a preference for binary reasoning: I have never cheated, therefore the request must come from insecurity and while you express frustration, you have limited curiosity about your GF's perspective.
You are moderately Conscientious, emphasizing your own reliability (Never cheated!) but you struggle with sustained empathy. You are less Neurotic and have greater emotional stability. You are reacting to what you perceive is control or mistrust and feel sensitive to relationship pressure. Overall, you are a somewhat defensive, skeptical, emotionally reactive communicator who values autonomy and personal trust, low in agreeableness, and moderate in emotional sensitivity.
You should be looking for women that are more independent, who values her own space and freedom. You should consider looking for women that are less Neurotic - more emotionally stable and less insecure who believes privacy is normal in a relationship. You want someone who is as conscientious as you and manages her own emotional world instead of relying on you. You might find this person is less Extroverted than the women you have been dating - someone who does not need constant interaction or hyper-connection and is comfortable with time alone.
Overall, you are looking for someone who is much more emotionally stable and less Neurotic and a bit less Extroverted and doesn't need constant interaction with you.
GPT?
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