Before location sharing..

[Anonymous]

I think this is crazy. I am a woman. I am late 40s. I never have shared a location. I was married for 10 years.

[Anonymous]

What do you have to hide OP?
Why do you balk at location sharing? It's not a big deal. But it is to a woman whose ex-h has lied and had an affair and destroyed her trust.
If you are truly serious with a woman and love her, then sharing location is simply a sign of love

[Anonymous]

OP big mad can't cheat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you have to hide OP?
Why do you balk at location sharing? It's not a big deal. But it is to a woman whose ex-h has lied and had an affair and destroyed her trust.
If you are truly serious with a woman and love her, then sharing location is simply a sign of love

It's a sign of not being ashamed of one's own behavior.

[Anonymous]

OP, run!
She wants to know when you aren't home so she can rob your house!

[Anonymous]

The smart cheaters use location sharing to alert when to kick AP out of the house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The smart cheaters use location sharing to alert when to kick AP out of the house

And refuse to install video cameras at home.

[Anonymous]

Age thing. It's normal for younger people to share location in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Consider thinking about the type of women you are attracted to and why. It seems like these women are highly conscientious - Often responsible, safety-oriented, and detail-minded. They also seem highly Neurotic - worried about if you are cheating or in an accident. That's a lot of worry. They are highly Agreeable - They value emotional closeness, mutual care, and cooperation.

I think you are much less Agreeable. You are a bit confrontational, at least in your writing and very defensive.
You are less Open and have a preference for binary reasoning: I have never cheated, therefore the request must come from insecurity and while you express frustration, you have limited curiosity about your GF's perspective.
You are moderately Conscientious, emphasizing your own reliability (Never cheated!) but you struggle with sustained empathy. You are less Neurotic and have greater emotional stability. You are reacting to what you perceive is control or mistrust and feel sensitive to relationship pressure. Overall, you are a somewhat defensive, skeptical, emotionally reactive communicator who values autonomy and personal trust, low in agreeableness, and moderate in emotional sensitivity.

You should be looking for women that are more independent, who values her own space and freedom. You should consider looking for women that are less Neurotic - more emotionally stable and less insecure who believes privacy is normal in a relationship. You want someone who is as conscientious as you and manages her own emotional world instead of relying on you. You might find this person is less Extroverted than the women you have been dating - someone who does not need constant interaction or hyper-connection and is comfortable with time alone.

Overall, you are looking for someone who is much more emotionally stable and less Neurotic and a bit less Extroverted and doesn't need constant interaction with you.

GPT?

[Anonymous]

and then my STBX started leaving one phone at home/work to disappear to his APs location-fortunately or unfortunately I found out...after 25 years of marriage this is..

[Anonymous]

You're an adult. Use your words. Say no.

Can't believe this location sharing is actually a thing .. Ick

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:and then my STBX started leaving one phone at home/work to disappear to his APs location-fortunately or unfortunately I found out...after 25 years of marriage this is..

Same person above: we had location sharing on forever and I never checked until he was coming from airport to see what his eta would be late at night.. and when i looked randomly i found out things...

[Anonymous]

I've never shared my location with anyone. Now I'm sad. I guess no one cares where I'm at.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Consider thinking about the type of women you are attracted to and why. It seems like these women are highly conscientious - Often responsible, safety-oriented, and detail-minded. They also seem highly Neurotic - worried about if you are cheating or in an accident. That's a lot of worry. They are highly Agreeable - They value emotional closeness, mutual care, and cooperation.

I think you are much less Agreeable. You are a bit confrontational, at least in your writing and very defensive.
You are less Open and have a preference for binary reasoning: I have never cheated, therefore the request must come from insecurity and while you express frustration, you have limited curiosity about your GF's perspective.
You are moderately Conscientious, emphasizing your own reliability (Never cheated!) but you struggle with sustained empathy. You are less Neurotic and have greater emotional stability. You are reacting to what you perceive is control or mistrust and feel sensitive to relationship pressure. Overall, you are a somewhat defensive, skeptical, emotionally reactive communicator who values autonomy and personal trust, low in agreeableness, and moderate in emotional sensitivity.

You should be looking for women that are more independent, who values her own space and freedom. You should consider looking for women that are less Neurotic - more emotionally stable and less insecure who believes privacy is normal in a relationship. You want someone who is as conscientious as you and manages her own emotional world instead of relying on you. You might find this person is less Extroverted than the women you have been dating - someone who does not need constant interaction or hyper-connection and is comfortable with time alone.

Overall, you are looking for someone who is much more emotionally stable and less Neurotic and a bit less Extroverted and doesn't need constant interaction with you.

GPT?

No. Psychographic behavior analysis. Much more fun to do that than write proposals.

[Anonymous]

We started location sharing when our college kid left for his study abroad program and we realized we felt reassured at checking his whereabouts occasionally. Previously, we had never thought about location sharing. But now all our iPhones have FindMy on. It's great!

Maybe you should stop being so weird about it.