2 texts in DH phone

[Anonymous]

Oh gosh, totally spam. This week I got

“Hey, are you free for lunch this week?”

And

“What have you been up to lately?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We have not been intimate in a decade (his choice, he's heavily medicated) so I will be pretty mad if he's stepping out. We do have a dog.

The issue is the lack of sex.
It's understandably not working for you.
You don't have to make up scenario of him cheating or find evidence of cheating.
You can divorce him for the no sex.

[Anonymous]

The fact that you’re spying on his texts speaks volumes.

[Anonymous]

They are so much fun to play with. I love stringing them along with their invites to lunch + oooops, wrong number = you seem so nice, maybe we can be friends ?!?

[Anonymous]

Lack of punctuation is spam

[Anonymous]

Fishing tects

[Anonymous]

It’s spam. Spam texts I’ve received in the past month:

Hi, how are you?

Hey, let’s catch up.

Up for a round of golf this week?

I’m in town, want to meet to get ribs? (This was my fave)

[Anonymous]

If you think that your husband would possibly lie to you about ANYthing then you need to take a huge step back ➕ examine your marriage.

Because w/out basic trust - - you really do not even have a foundation on which to base your relationship on.

Living w/someone whose integrity you do not trust never boded well for anyone.

[Anonymous]

No sex in a decade. Are you waiting for your kids to grow up? I can't think of any other good reason to put up with that. It kind of tells me you couldn't care less about sex, which makes me wonder why you would be upset if he was cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We have not been intimate in a decade (his choice, he's heavily medicated) so I will be pretty mad if he's stepping out. We do have a dog.

The issue is the lack of sex.
It's understandably not working for you.
You don't have to make up scenario of him cheating or find evidence of cheating.
You can divorce him for the no sex.

Yeah…. This.

[Anonymous]

Relax. I get those stupid spam texts all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No sex in a decade. Are you waiting for your kids to grow up? I can't think of any other good reason to put up with that. It kind of tells me you couldn't care less about sex, which makes me wonder why you would be upset if he was cheating.

Yes waiting for kids to grow up. And mental illness is still an illness. For better for worse in sickness in health and all that

[Anonymous]

The fact that you didn't immediately identify these texts as spam speaks volume.
No surprise your sex life is dead.

[Anonymous]

lol. Thanks for the laugh op.

I get like 5 of those a day.

I’m back in town, let’s catch up.

I see your number in my texts, who is this?

Good or dinner works for me!

[Anonymous]

the easy answer is that these are spam. We all get these several times a week.

But the more important question is why you haven't had sex in TEN YEARS???? why still married?