Is he a white man? Friends and I were talking about how our white husbands don’t like Trump and vote against him and complain about him at dinner parties, but are “mostly fine.” The conclusion was that white men (who aren’t MAGA) more or less believe they’re going to be fine because they’ve always been fine. They obvs don’t have the same struggles that women and POC do, which is why sadly so few are speaking up. |
Op. Nope, not a white man. And he’s LGBTQ and as I mentioned, he (and our work place) are very left leaning and he also typically talks personal issues a lot (worries about Obergrfell) and the current political situation is impacting some issues for us at work. All the people crowing on here about it being ‘trashy’ to talk politics at work are purposely ignoring the details in my op and jumping to conclusions that are disconnected from reality. |
| Maybe he just doesn’t want to talk about it, either at work or at all. There’s no requirement that he do so. |
| That's my go to phrase when I don't want to discuss it. Look, your workplace may be left leaning but politics is a sensitive issue. Your boss is smart not to bring it up. Talking about your families is very different than talking about politics. |
No, you're just not getting that the work place isn't an appropriate place to talk about politics. Especially from a position of power. It doesn't matter how left leaning it is. |
| Is OP a tween? |
| I might be your boss. I am secretly MAGA. |
Definitely in her early 20s. |
Could be a young millennial. Definitely not GenX. |
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Maybe he's following the news that he cares most about, but not following everything because trying to keep up with it all is a fast route to despair.
I'm left-leaning working for a left-leaning organization. I prefer not to have political conversations at work, particularly with my bosses or my direct reports. But if I did, I could probably have a conversation about what's going on in health care or education news. But if you asked me about Trump's speech to the UN for example, I probably couldn't tell you much. |
Is it possible that your husbands actually all voted for Trump, but tell you otherwise to maintain peace in the marriage? |
That actually happened every day with the last administration. Anyone who is intellectually honest or moderate can see that this is not something unique to trump and his followers. |
I’d rather stab myself with a pencil than have a political conversation at work with anyone, much less my boss or direct reports. |
I think you are ignoring the professional signals and unspoken advice from your boss to keep politics out of work, which is immature and shows your inexperience and undeveloped judgment. Mentoring inexperienced workers can be done through example, not just big public proclamations. Follow his lead. You sound very new to the workforce and inexperienced. Emulating his example of keeping politics out of the workforce will serve you well Also keep in mind that the vast majority of people, left or right, are not monolithic and 100% team red or team blue. Your boss might be left on lbgtq and some parts of immigration, but pro closed borders, cutting back on H1N1 and pro law enforcement surge. He might be anti censorship but also anti violent leftist antifa attacks. You don't know and shouldn't know, especially since he is the boss. What if he regularly does what you do, spouting off against trump, republicans, and white male evangelical Christians, then has to fire someone for poor performance who happens to be conservative, white, male or Christian? He is opening up your company to a lawsuit if he is overtly political or overtly team blue. You will learn these things once you get a little older and more grown up than just out of college and new to the workforce Keep your politics to yourself, especially once you are entrusted to supervise others Follow your boss' lead on this one. |
I think right out of college, like 22 or 23. |