Am I unreasonable for setting boundaries with my SIL?

[Anonymous]

OP, how is this a problem? if she has been angry/brought this up for half a year and is this angry, don't worry, they WON'T be staying with you. This is the least of your problems.

This is DH's problem and he can address it with her/their parents so they are aware of her possible mental health issues/changes in her behaviour.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let them make their own arrangements for accommodations going forward.

This is what I want to do. But what should we say to her when she asks about staying here?

You say no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Easy. You meet them on neutral turf. A restaurant. That your DH arranges (they are hIS family) You drive yourself so you can leave when you feel that's appropriate.

This! My problematic SIL did not like this either.