Are you bothered by your partner's sounds during intimacy?

Anonymous
The sound your DW’s P makes when too much air gets in there and after you’re done it sounds like a f$&t? 😂
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My wife barely makes a sound which is a bit annoying. The last woman I slept with before my wife was a great moaner. I don't know if it was a performance or real but I didn't care.

Just pull on her nipples and squeeze her ass REALLY hard
Anonymous
I hate dirty talk. Because men just don't know how to talk dirty. It just becomes nasty and creepy talk.

I like grunts from men.
Anonymous
lol at OP…just let your partner enjoy sex.
Anonymous
There's always one creep who can't read the room and makes the thread disgusting
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I hate dirty talk. Because men just don't know how to talk dirty. It just becomes nasty and creepy talk.

I like grunts from men.


I find the opposite, men are WAY too tame when it comes to dirty talk. The guy I’m currently seeing only says “I want you” and “you feel so good”. I need it WAY filthier.
Anonymous
He will moan and groan at times and once in a while when I’m really into it I will talk dirty telling him what I want him to do in a very direct and dirty way. His groans turn to grunts and it gets pretty wild. Other than that I rarely say a dirty word. We’ve been married 32 years so a few F words at the right moment really work.
Anonymous
He is quiet like a mouse. Minimalist that way. I kinda like it for him. I see that he likes it and feels it. I know him well. He is the one who is always ready, and at times, stays ready.
The others can do whatever they do. Each man is different.
The hottest are the ones who shake from excitement. Usually new partner who had long time to think about it and get ready. Can't fake shaking.
I have had someone dump it all on me as he was getting closer. It came with some heavy breathing and an apology soon after. Imagine being that excited.
I've also had one break two condoms.He had waited three years for that moment. None have made crazy noises. Just heavier breathing. I cannot concentrate if they are too loud.
Op, why don't you be louder than they are. Then you can't hear them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.


Absolutely true of DW.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:He is quiet like a mouse. Minimalist that way. I kinda like it for him. I see that he likes it and feels it. I know him well. He is the one who is always ready, and at times, stays ready.
The others can do whatever they do. Each man is different.
The hottest are the ones who shake from excitement. Usually new partner who had long time to think about it and get ready. Can't fake shaking.
I have had someone dump it all on me as he was getting closer. It came with some heavy breathing and an apology soon after. Imagine being that excited.
I've also had one break two condoms.He had waited three years for that moment. None have made crazy noises. Just heavier breathing. I cannot concentrate if they are too loud.
Op, why don't you be louder than they are. Then you can't hear them.


How did he break two condoms? Was he putting them on wrong?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate dirty talk. Because men just don't know how to talk dirty. It just becomes nasty and creepy talk.

I like grunts from men.


I find the opposite, men are WAY too tame when it comes to dirty talk. The guy I’m currently seeing only says “I want you” and “you feel so good”. I need it WAY filthier.


Most women are not like you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


It’s certainly not performative for me. I truly can’t help it unless I’m really focused on being quiet. That said, I’ve only been really loud with a few guys I’ve dated and sometimes my DH.
Anonymous
My wife is pretty quiet except for dirty talk. She does a pretty good job with that but I would enjoy hearing more if it came naturally.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate dirty talk. Because men just don't know how to talk dirty. It just becomes nasty and creepy talk.

I like grunts from men.


I find the opposite, men are WAY too tame when it comes to dirty talk. The guy I’m currently seeing only says “I want you” and “you feel so good”. I need it WAY filthier.


What stops you from telling him what you want?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate dirty talk. Because men just don't know how to talk dirty. It just becomes nasty and creepy talk.

I like grunts from men.


I find the opposite, men are WAY too tame when it comes to dirty talk. The guy I’m currently seeing only says “I want you” and “you feel so good”. I need it WAY filthier.


What stops you from telling him what you want?


I have. I just don’t think he has it in him. He’s more into sweet, gentle sex. It’s not dirty talk, but he does say “I love you” multiple times during sex (along with lots of other loving things).

Which is fine. There are things I would be uncomfortable doing, so I understand if it’s a boundary and I’m not going to pressure him into anything.

I did finally get him to start calling me a good girl once in awhile, so that’s progress.
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