Are you bothered by your partner's sounds during intimacy?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


I am a moaner and noisy sex partner. It is not performative. It is called pleasure. If my kids are home I cover my face with a pillow, it sucks. Some people just are more expressive than others! Or maybe my partner is better in bed…
Anonymous
I think every moan I’ve heard is hot.

Some of the words have felt silly, especially when hearing them for the 1000th time.

But I never felt the need to bring it up and work through it.
Anonymous
My ex started making new sounds in bed that he had picked up from his girlfriend. Now that was a turnoff.
Anonymous
When I realized he sounded like a flopping seal I closed for business.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


I am a moaner and noisy sex partner. It is not performative. It is called pleasure. If my kids are home I cover my face with a pillow, it sucks. Some people just are more expressive than others! Or maybe my partner is better in bed



You're also extremely immature and lake reading comprhensio. PP didn't say screaming is never authentiv, just that it mostly is, and I actually believe that's correct.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


I am a moaner and noisy sex partner. It is not performative. It is called pleasure. If my kids are home I cover my face with a pillow, it sucks. Some people just are more expressive than others! Or maybe my partner is better in bed



You're also extremely immature and lake reading comprhensio. PP didn't say screaming is never authentiv, just that it mostly is, and I actually believe that's correct.


I found PP’s comment an interesting juxtaposition with the why do women go after married men post. I don’t see men doing this type of taunting of other men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


I am a moaner and noisy sex partner. It is not performative. It is called pleasure. If my kids are home I cover my face with a pillow, it sucks. Some people just are more expressive than others! Or maybe my partner is better in bed



You're also extremely immature and lake reading comprhensio. PP didn't say screaming is never authentiv, just that it mostly is, and I actually believe that's correct.


I found PP’s comment an interesting juxtaposition with the why do women go after married men post. I don’t see men doing this type of taunting of other men.


Interestingly, the original pp didn't specify man or woman with their comment.
Anonymous
My wife barely makes a sound which is a bit annoying. The last woman I slept with before my wife was a great moaner. I don't know if it was a performance or real but I didn't care.
Anonymous
Men are like a buffet. Take a new plate.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


I am a moaner and noisy sex partner. It is not performative. It is called pleasure. If my kids are home I cover my face with a pillow, it sucks. Some people just are more expressive than others! Or maybe my partner is better in bed



You're also extremely immature and lake reading comprhensio. PP didn't say screaming is never authentiv, just that it mostly is, and I actually believe that's correct.


I found PP’s comment an interesting juxtaposition with the why do women go after married men post. I don’t see men doing this type of taunting of other men.


Interestingly, the original pp didn't specify man or woman with their comment.


She didn’t, but I am quite certain she’s a woman.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My wife barely makes a sound which is a bit annoying. The last woman I slept with before my wife was a great moaner. I don't know if it was a performance or real but I didn't care.


That’s because you are the smallest she’s had
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


I am a moaner and noisy sex partner. It is not performative. It is called pleasure. If my kids are home I cover my face with a pillow, it sucks. Some people just are more expressive than others! Or maybe my partner is better in bed



You're also extremely immature and lake reading comprhensio. PP didn't say screaming is never authentiv, just that it mostly is, and I actually believe that's correct.


I found PP’s comment an interesting juxtaposition with the why do women go after married men post. I don’t see men doing this type of taunting of other men.


Interestingly, the original pp didn't specify man or woman with their comment.


She didn’t, but I am quite certain she’s a woman.


you can't be certain of anything and even if that's so your premise still fails. you wanted to accuse pp so badly of misogyny but you yourself are the misogynist.
Anonymous
I had a BF once who couldn’t stop these small moans every two seconds when he went downtown. Now, I’m glad you’re enjoying it too, but I had to shush him up. My partner now isn’t vocal enough for me, but when he moans and grunts it is the hottest thing EVER. Helps that he’s hot.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:When I realized he sounded like a flopping seal I closed for business.

Our house is too humid so in the summer the skin on skin with sweat starts… making very bad sounds.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I appreciate any sound a woman makes. So many of them are way too silent. They trained themselves to be like that so their children didn't hear them and now it's a habit they can't break. Give me a screamer every time.



I feel like for the most part screaming isn't natural but performative.


But talking dirty is… not?
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