“My husband is so hot!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should enthusiastically agree, with details.

“He sure is! Those eyes just stare into your soul, and you could bounce a quarter off that ass. Plus his crooked smile….”with a dreamy sigh.

She won’t do it again.

She will if she’s trolling for new swapping partners.

Tell her you are interested and do not consent

NOT interested

[Anonymous]

I have an acquaintance who does this but it fits her entire persona. She loves attention and she's a lot. Hopefully her and her husband are as happy as she claims but I really don't need to know about it.

[Anonymous]

Just say “give it twenty years and thirty pounds”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH and I have a couple we are friends with. We have kids around the same age and we get together with them a few times a year. Every single time we are together, the wife seems to go out of her way to make comments to me about how attractive she finds her husband. Like this last time, we were just standing watching the kids play and she looked over at her husband and mine talking across the pool and she’s like, “My husband is so f’ing hot.”

It’s so awkward. What does she want from me? Does she want ME to agree he’s hot? I don’t think he’s hot. He’s traditionally attractive, but I don’t find him “hot” and if I did, I sure wouldn’t broadcast it!

Other times she’ll be like, “Adam is such a DILF” or “Look at my sexy husband.”

These two are otherwise career professionals, UMC, especially her; she comes from money. It always sort of shocks me and feels so abrupt and out of place. I DO NOT think she’s suggesting anything like swinging, before anyone mentions that.

So what DOES she want from me?

How should I handle this going forward?

Take the hint.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Goose, you stud, take me to bed or lose me forever

But Goose was hot!

[Anonymous]

She’s insecure and wants your validation. I know because I used to do that (boasting about certain aspects of my life) in order to make sure people I feel threatened by perceive me as just as their equal, or even better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When she says that just look her directly in the eyes, painfully and stare. Say nothing, just stare. That will be the last time she says that.

Whenever I read posts from people who can’t find friends, I think about suggestions like these. How on earth do you people with no social skills function in the world?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe just respond with, “I’m glad you think so!” And leave it up to interpretation. Super weird to say that out loud.

This

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just say “give it twenty years and thirty pounds”

Why are you so bitter and cynical? My parents have been married for 50 years and are still genuinely like this. Some people are actually genuinely super in love. Sure, it's a little over the top but good for them, I say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One time someone I know said this in front of her teenage daughter. I turned to the kid and said, Larla don't you agree your dad is super hot???

It is massively cringe. If your husband is really notably and exceptionally hot (and I hang around a lot of dads...it's unlikely!), people will notice without you saying it.

If it was true, she's probably heard it before. Teen girls absolutely joke about and with their friend(s) who have a "hot dad."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One time someone I know said this in front of her teenage daughter. I turned to the kid and said, Larla don't you agree your dad is super hot???

It is massively cringe. If your husband is really notably and exceptionally hot (and I hang around a lot of dads...it's unlikely!), people will notice without you saying it.

If it was true, she's probably heard it before. Teen girls absolutely joke about and with their friend(s) who have a "hot dad."

Things I NEVER did as a teen girl and I've never heard my teen daughter do.

That is f-ing weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One time someone I know said this in front of her teenage daughter. I turned to the kid and said, Larla don't you agree your dad is super hot???

It is massively cringe. If your husband is really notably and exceptionally hot (and I hang around a lot of dads...it's unlikely!), people will notice without you saying it.

If it was true, she's probably heard it before. Teen girls absolutely joke about and with their friend(s) who have a "hot dad."

I think what some of you need to realize is these are dads likely in their 40s or 50s. Or older. You, middle age lady, might think your husband is hot. It's pretty few and far between that any normal teen girl who is well adjusted is checking out 45-50+ year old dads. If they are doing so, seriously you should be concerned.

[Anonymous]

I’d cheerfully respond “guess there’s somebody for everybody!” and change the subject.

Also, I definitely had a friend with a hot dad when I was a teenager! He looked like Pierce Brosnan. In high school I joined her family on a beach vacation and got to see him surfing in his swim trunks. I - then a shy virgin- had the FILTHIEST fantasies about him! I feel like there’s no way he never caught me checking him out (even my friend was like “ewww, stop mooning over my DAD” but if he did, there was certainly no indication of it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One time someone I know said this in front of her teenage daughter. I turned to the kid and said, Larla don't you agree your dad is super hot???

It is massively cringe. If your husband is really notably and exceptionally hot (and I hang around a lot of dads...it's unlikely!), people will notice without you saying it.

If it was true, she's probably heard it before. Teen girls absolutely joke about and with their friend(s) who have a "hot dad."

Things I NEVER did as a teen girl and I've never heard my teen daughter do.

That is f-ing weird.

Okay. You’re wrong. But okay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One time someone I know said this in front of her teenage daughter. I turned to the kid and said, Larla don't you agree your dad is super hot???

It is massively cringe. If your husband is really notably and exceptionally hot (and I hang around a lot of dads...it's unlikely!), people will notice without you saying it.

If it was true, she's probably heard it before. Teen girls absolutely joke about and with their friend(s) who have a "hot dad."

I think what some of you need to realize is these are dads likely in their 40s or 50s. Or older. You, middle age lady, might think your husband is hot. It's pretty few and far between that any normal teen girl who is well adjusted is checking out 45-50+ year old dads. If they are doing so, seriously you should be concerned.

Oy vey nobody said a teen girl is trying to sleep with her friend’s dad. But joking that a girlfriend with a notably handsome dad has a “hot dad” is hardly uncommon. Girls have eyes and a sense of humor, you know.