Why some kids are grateful and caring and others arent?

[Anonymous]

My kids are very spoiled. And grateful.

I’ve noticed that parents who expect to be able to control their kids in a certain way by giving them things sometimes get upset when they are “not grateful”. Just saying.

[Anonymous]

I guess some humans are the kind to be grateful and kind while others aren't, kids are no exception.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I might be considered ungrateful. I never wanted to be born and spent most of my life wondering why my parents kept me alive once they had the son they wanted. They should have murdered me at 18 months when they got the child with the penis like they wanted.

You have serious psychological issues.

[Anonymous]

The question from the OP is basically unanswerable without knowing the specifics involved.

But it seems that a lot of the examples given here are exacerbated by mental health issues (either child or parents). Untreated depression can make you feel like the world is against you and can make you react illogically.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Today, my mom cannot recall calling me a see you next Tuesday by the time I was 12. She forgets the daily screaming fights with her husband.

My brother and I were raised by babysitters. When she needs help one day, she can call a babysitter.

What did you do when you were 12 to deserve it? There’s two sides to every story.

Found the abuser.