Husband has become mean

[Anonymous]

He forgot to pick up something from the store? Oh honey. If this gets you worked up what are you going to do when some serious issues start happening?

[Anonymous]

ADHD. Or just stupidity

[Anonymous]

You're pregnant not disabled get your own food.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I have both forgotten things the other has asked us to pick up from the store. It happens sometimes if we don't write it down. The dinner is something I'd be annoyed about but considering it seems like it's so unlike him, I would have chalked it up to he truly did forget.

I also don't have much tolerance for when pregnant women act extremely needy and overly emotional.

I don’t feel I’m super needy. I just really wanted that food and those items. I’m also not generally emotional but pregnancy has made me emotional at times.

LOL

And if you don’t work, you should literally be doing everything around the house. That’s not doing things for him, that is your job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you the same OP who's been posting about DH not doing his part or asking for dinner?

yes and the 5 million 5 weeks threads and overspeading and nursery nonsense. it's a troll.

YES!!

[Anonymous]

You don't work??! Why aren't you doing the shopping?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, he doesn't like you and he is going to be unhelpful with the baby. Be prepared to leave.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, he doesn't like you and he is going to be unhelpful with the baby. Be prepared to leave.

+1

If she is a SAHM, that's what she signed up for. He's accustomed to being catered to, and feels he's paying for that right. He has made it clear he will not be the one who caters so OP needs to suck it up. That's not who she married, or the deal she made. It's what happens when you have no power in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure he’s actually going to the places he says he is? Many men start cheating while the woman is pregnant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're pregnant not disabled get your own food.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m pregnant and hormonal and feel like I’ve been handling my emotions fairly well. My husband has been a dream for majority of my pregnancy but has lately been rude. He went to dinner with a friend last week and I asked him to please pick up some food at my favorite restaurant down the street. He came home with no food after “ forgetting”. I was starving by that point and very upset. A couple days after that he forgot to grab stuff from the same store he was at. Last night he went out again to run errands and forgot the snacks and other items I asked him to pick up for me. I was very mad and felt forgotten. He told me get over it and that he can’t wait for me to not be pregnant because I’ve been a real pita. I cried and now we aren’t speaking.

Get a handle on your emotions and get in the kitchen and cook something healthy to eat rather than expecting takeout.

If you have gained more than 20lbs during pregnancy, then you are overeating anyway or eating too much junk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m pregnant and hormonal and feel like I’ve been handling my emotions fairly well. My husband has been a dream for majority of my pregnancy but has lately been rude. He went to dinner with a friend last week and I asked him to please pick up some food at my favorite restaurant down the street. He came home with no food after “ forgetting”. I was starving by that point and very upset. A couple days after that he forgot to grab stuff from the same store he was at. Last night he went out again to run errands and forgot the snacks and other items I asked him to pick up for me. I was very mad and felt forgotten. He told me get over it and that he can’t wait for me to not be pregnant because I’ve been a real pita. I cried and now we aren’t speaking.

Get a handle on your emotions and get in the kitchen and cook something healthy to eat rather than expecting takeout.

If you have gained more than 20lbs during pregnancy, then you are overeating anyway or eating too much junk.

You’re so incorrect. A healthy pregnancy weight gain for a single baby is 25-30lbs. Get educated before you spout lies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m pregnant and hormonal and feel like I’ve been handling my emotions fairly well. My husband has been a dream for majority of my pregnancy but has lately been rude. He went to dinner with a friend last week and I asked him to please pick up some food at my favorite restaurant down the street. He came home with no food after “ forgetting”. I was starving by that point and very upset. A couple days after that he forgot to grab stuff from the same store he was at. Last night he went out again to run errands and forgot the snacks and other items I asked him to pick up for me. I was very mad and felt forgotten. He told me get over it and that he can’t wait for me to not be pregnant because I’ve been a real pita. I cried and now we aren’t speaking.

Get a handle on your emotions and get in the kitchen and cook something healthy to eat rather than expecting takeout.

If you have gained more than 20lbs during pregnancy, then you are overeating anyway or eating too much junk.

You’re so incorrect. A healthy pregnancy weight gain for a single baby is 25-30lbs. Get educated before you spout lies.

25-35lbs and even up to 40 is normal for a healthy fit woman.

[Anonymous]

I think your first example is unreasonable. He went out for dinner with a friend and you wanted him to go to a different restaurant to get food for you to bring home.

He should have picked up the snacks you put on your shopping list when he went to the store. We have a list on the fridge and whoever goes to the store should get what is on the list.

If these were just random comments and he forgot, that isn't an issue. Talking about snacks and actually saying, I put x and y on the list are very different. I often talk about food I want but I don't actually want him to buy it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m pregnant and hormonal and feel like I’ve been handling my emotions fairly well. My husband has been a dream for majority of my pregnancy but has lately been rude. He went to dinner with a friend last week and I asked him to please pick up some food at my favorite restaurant down the street. He came home with no food after “ forgetting”. I was starving by that point and very upset. A couple days after that he forgot to grab stuff from the same store he was at. Last night he went out again to run errands and forgot the snacks and other items I asked him to pick up for me. I was very mad and felt forgotten. He told me get over it and that he can’t wait for me to not be pregnant because I’ve been a real pita. I cried and now we aren’t speaking.

Get a handle on your emotions and get in the kitchen and cook something healthy to eat rather than expecting takeout.

If you have gained more than 20lbs during pregnancy, then you are overeating anyway or eating too much junk.

You’re so incorrect. A healthy pregnancy weight gain for a single baby is 25-30lbs. Get educated before you spout lies.

Says who, big weight-loss/big sugar?