Husband has become mean

[Anonymous]

I’m pregnant and hormonal and feel like I’ve been handling my emotions fairly well. My husband has been a dream for majority of my pregnancy but has lately been rude. He went to dinner with a friend last week and I asked him to please pick up some food at my favorite restaurant down the street. He came home with no food after “ forgetting”. I was starving by that point and very upset. A couple days after that he forgot to grab stuff from the same store he was at. Last night he went out again to run errands and forgot the snacks and other items I asked him to pick up for me. I was very mad and felt forgotten. He told me get over it and that he can’t wait for me to not be pregnant because I’ve been a real pita. I cried and now we aren’t speaking.

[Anonymous]

why can't you get the food yourself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:why can't you get the food yourself?

He was already at those locations or down the street and it’s a 20 minute drive for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:why can't you get the food yourself?

He was already at those locations or down the street and it’s a 20 minute drive for me.

why not send him back out?

[Anonymous]

DH and I have both forgotten things the other has asked us to pick up from the store. It happens sometimes if we don't write it down. The dinner is something I'd be annoyed about but considering it seems like it's so unlike him, I would have chalked it up to he truly did forget.

I also don't have much tolerance for when pregnant women act extremely needy and overly emotional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I have both forgotten things the other has asked us to pick up from the store. It happens sometimes if we don't write it down. The dinner is something I'd be annoyed about but considering it seems like it's so unlike him, I would have chalked it up to he truly did forget.

I also don't have much tolerance for when pregnant women act extremely needy and overly emotional.

I don’t feel I’m super needy. I just really wanted that food and those items. I’m also not generally emotional but pregnancy has made me emotional at times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:why can't you get the food yourself?

He was already at those locations or down the street and it’s a 20 minute drive for me.

why not send him back out?

He didn’t want to go back out. He wanted to relax and told me to just eat something else.

[Anonymous]

Are you the same OP who's been posting about DH not doing his part or asking for dinner?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I have both forgotten things the other has asked us to pick up from the store. It happens sometimes if we don't write it down. The dinner is something I'd be annoyed about but considering it seems like it's so unlike him, I would have chalked it up to he truly did forget.

I also don't have much tolerance for when pregnant women act extremely needy and overly emotional.

I don’t feel I’m super needy. I just really wanted that food and those items. I’m also not generally emotional but pregnancy has made me emotional at times.

He obviously feels differently. And the way you write "has become mean" "felt forgotten" "I cried and now we aren't speaking" 100% makes you sound needy and overly emotional

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you the same OP who's been posting about DH not doing his part or asking for dinner?

No.

[Anonymous]

Yikes! Your husband is over you & the pregnancy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yikes! Your husband is over you & the pregnancy.

Too bad. I do a lot for him.

It’s really not even about the snacks and the food. It’s about respect. I bust my butt to make sure he has everything he needs - clean clothes for the week, pick up his dry cleaning, packed lunches, breakfast and coffee in the morning, dinner when he gets home, any special treat he asks me to make, comes home to a peaceful home ( peace is the most important thing to him). I make sure not to ask for too much or nag him. He gets a solid 30 minutes of peace when he comes home from work. He gets as much intimacy as he wants ( I make sure to never to never say no more than twice in a row). I’m very accommodating. He can deal with my emotions for the time being until I’m normal again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you the same OP who's been posting about DH not doing his part or asking for dinner?

yes and the 5 million 5 weeks threads and overspeading and nursery nonsense. it's a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yikes! Your husband is over you & the pregnancy.

Too bad. I do a lot for him.

It’s really not even about the snacks and the food. It’s about respect. I bust my butt to make sure he has everything he needs - clean clothes for the week, pick up his dry cleaning, packed lunches, breakfast and coffee in the morning, dinner when he gets home, any special treat he asks me to make, comes home to a peaceful home ( peace is the most important thing to him). I make sure not to ask for too much or nag him. He gets a solid 30 minutes of peace when he comes home from work. He gets as much intimacy as he wants ( I make sure to never to never say no more than twice in a row). I’m very accommodating. He can deal with my emotions for the time being until I’m normal again.

Are you his momma?

Good luck once that baby arrives as all of that will absolutely come to a hard stop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yikes! Your husband is over you & the pregnancy.

Too bad. I do a lot for him.

It’s really not even about the snacks and the food. It’s about respect. I bust my butt to make sure he has everything he needs - clean clothes for the week, pick up his dry cleaning, packed lunches, breakfast and coffee in the morning, dinner when he gets home, any special treat he asks me to make, comes home to a peaceful home ( peace is the most important thing to him). I make sure not to ask for too much or nag him. He gets a solid 30 minutes of peace when he comes home from work. He gets as much intimacy as he wants ( I make sure to never to never say no more than twice in a row). I’m very accommodating. He can deal with my emotions for the time being until I’m normal again.

And you claim you're not overly emotional lol? I can see why your DH is annoyed with you.