He wasn't thinking. Your personal cheating scenario is a fantasy. The reality looks like what this guy and woman are doing: having fun, going to fun events and probably effing a lot. Meanwhile, back at their homes: children, stress, bills, you know, the real adult world aka reality. |
Whoa. No, that's maybe specific to you and your own kinks. Relationships can be interesting for many, much more healthy, reasons. |
No. That is not what "real" affairs look like. This is what rich affairs look like. |
lol, the actual locations will vary: bar, car show, but the idiocy and effing will be consistent. |
The intern is freaking out, her face is red AF. |
This. |
It's more like cars, hotels and restaurants your friends would never go to. The effing is few and far between, if it were often it would be boring like all effing. |
If you think healthy relationships don't have power imbalances, you are incredibly naive. What makes them healthy is how the imbalances are managed. Also, you misread my post: I didn't say that the imbalances are the ONLY thing that makes relationships interesting. |
+1 Of the affairs I've known about (2 college friends cheating on their wives, and one coworker cheating on her husband) all were clandestine as possible. One was a bunch of sex at a family cabin in the Shenandoah while supposedly on travel, another was discovered by colleagues while on travel (caught leaving his room in the am) and the other was basically lots and lots of car sex. None of them were fancy dinners or nights out on the town. It was sex. |
Hey leave Coldplay out of it! They have some good songs! |
Uh, no. Hell no. Men don't cheat so they can go to museums and have tea. They cheat for the ass. That's it. |
I don't know why but him just sinking down to the ground rather than walking off-camera is so funny to me. |
I'm cheating. We do regular date things, like dinners and museums and movies. But we don't touch in public. So far, haven't been caught. That CEO was cupping her boob. |
+1. Some people are really stupid. |
Yeah you don't do that unless you've been "inside" |