Weird situation about cheating.
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Anonymous
| All husbands like yours always do. ^ |
Anonymous
| Guy here. And this is not ok. He has no confidence in himself, respect for you or respect for your relationship. |
Anonymous
| He’s cheating on you OP. This is classic cheater behavior. Don’t live in denial. Every accusation is a projection. |
Anonymous
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Ok. Let’s assume he is cheating. I can’t just ask him “are you cheating?” and expect the truth, and if I say I want to leave, he will deny and say I am blowing up the family for no reason.
I have no real proof, so I would be looking at seeing my kids half the time. I’m not sure this is worth it. |
Anonymous
Well start looking through your phone records and family devices. Or invite her to lunch. |
Anonymous
| Your husband is unreasonable. It’s concerning that you don’t recognize this. |
Anonymous
| I would divorce over his control issues. He doesn’t want you to talk to ANY men ( at work or at the baseball field). Due to his demands, you have changed your natural inclination to be friendly. This is not normal. |
Anonymous
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You may have already heard this but when someone is always pointing the finger at you for cheating it is likely due to the simple fact that they themselves are doing just that.
Go w/your intuition on this - it sounds to me like your husband DID have an affair w/this other woman. He is making excuses, lying about it all. The zinger that he wouldn’t be bothered if you slept w/someone else….??! That pretty much confirms he is a useless rat. |