Has your husband or boyfriend ever admitted to fantasizing about men?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..


Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.


I used to think this until I started reading datalounge.


I am the PP with the misogynistic husband. Now I'm going down the rabbit hole..
Anonymous
He gay.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ex husband, who I had regular sex with, told me he fantasized about being with men. As openminded as I am (lots of friends who are gay/lesbian) this was a big surprise. We had been together for over 10 years, unhappily on my end.

I assume he was/is bi. Wondering how common this is amongst “straight” men.


It's not common among straight people men and women.
Anonymous
My crazy sociology teacher many years ago said to us that men who have sex with trans women are straight men because they view them as women. He said they are not bi because trans women are women. This was 12 years ago.

So OP maybe your ex likes trans women.

Regardless, hopefully now that he is divorced he can have sex with whoever he wants to without shame. We love once so it would be a waste if a man like men but stay in the closest. If I liked men you damn right I'll be seeking them. Live life folks. But I just love pussy and the sexual energy I feel around a woman is irreplaceable
Anonymous
Rocco the very famous porn star said that all men are bi because he said he doesn't know any man who like to watch another man who doesn't have a big erect penis during a porn scene. He said when men watch porn they cannot ignore the erect penis of the male actor and if that man had a soft limp d**k he wouldn't watch the scene.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..


I think women have become so tired of misogynistic men than they are now starting to label such men as gay.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..


Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.


Sure, that’s the stereotype but IRL gay guys can be really misogynistic too.

I’ve seen a lot of gay guys slap girls asses and touch boobs — but it’s okay because they’re gay! There’s also a tendency to body shame to an extreme. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows.
Anonymous
I'm currently dating a woman who casually told me she was bi during on our 3rd date

Should I worry that she may leave me for a woman one day?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm currently dating a woman who casually told me she was bi during on our 3rd date

Should I worry that she may leave me for a woman one day?


She could also leave you for another man. Why wouldn’t you worry about both?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm currently dating a woman who casually told me she was bi during on our 3rd date

Should I worry that she may leave me for a woman one day?


She could also leave you for another man. Why wouldn’t you worry about both?


I don't think another man can offer her what I can offer her.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Friend and I had sex with a woman at the same time, we didn’t touch each other except for brushing arms or legs. It was 20 years ago and was the closest I ever go to bi, still top 5 in the spank bank.


Was this at a wedding in southern VA?


Steve?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..


I think women have become so tired of misogynistic men than they are now starting to label such men as gay.


Oof. It's definitely an epic shame that women can't seem to find a man worth a damn.

And with this young generation of nutters, it will only get worse.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..


Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.


Not the closeted ones.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My crazy sociology teacher many years ago said to us that men who have sex with trans women are straight men because they view them as women. He said they are not bi because trans women are women. This was 12 years ago.

So OP maybe your ex likes trans women.

Regardless, hopefully now that he is divorced he can have sex with whoever he wants to without shame. We love once so it would be a waste if a man like men but stay in the closest. If I liked men you damn right I'll be seeking them. Live life folks. But I just love pussy and the sexual energy I feel around a woman is irreplaceable


Your teacher was wrong. Trans women aren’t women. They are men. Straight men into trans or gay men are gay.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..


Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.


Not the closeted ones.


Oy, right? This is what I am thinking..
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