Has your husband or boyfriend ever admitted to fantasizing about men?

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately we have a culture which doesn’t support bisexuality, so I would be surprised if many men admitted to this.

The biggest irony is that straight women are huge consumers of gay porn, yet if they found out their own bf/husband was bisexual, they’d be against it.

[Anonymous]

Your ex was bi. This isn’t common among straight men. But it is common among bi men.

[Anonymous]

No. Maybe he is bisexual or gay.

[Anonymous]

I think if he admitted to fantasizing about it he probably already did it. I doubt most men would admit to just the fantasy if they never intended to act on it.

[Anonymous]

Gross

[Anonymous]

This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Barack Obama did so 🤷🏼‍♀️

He wrote about it to letters to his ex-gf from his Oberlin days.

I think everyone pretty much knows he's bi at least from how he carries himself.

Never got why he hasn't come out. You'd think it would make him more popular.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

[Anonymous]

I assume one of my ex boyfriends was bi. He would always make weird comments about attractive men and had some very flamboyant friends, a couple of whom were clearly closeted gay but I think eventually came out.

I later found out from a mutual friend (after we broke up) that he had kissed a guy before and I don’t know what else. Bi men can make great boyfriends - easy to talk to and get along with. We had a lot of fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Friend and I had sex with a woman at the same time, we didn’t touch each other except for brushing arms or legs. It was 20 years ago and was the closest I ever go to bi, still top 5 in the spank bank.

Was this at a wedding in southern VA?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Barack Obama did so 🤷🏼‍♀️

He wrote about it to letters to his ex-gf from his Oberlin days.

I think everyone pretty much knows he's bi at least from how he carries himself.

Never got why he hasn't come out. You'd think it would make him more popular.

Who does he need to be more popular with, other than straight white men and that’s not gonna do it for them unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

Well I’ve heard of many golf trip drunken HJs and BJs happening with seemingly straight successful men from this area.

[Anonymous]

I like all of the women who say “no, never.” What you mean is they’ve never admitted it. A lot more fantasize about men than you think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

PP.

So because my husband is a misogynist, that just makes him an as*hole?

I guess maybe I'm searching for something more, a reason, or sorts..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so bizarre that I'm seeing this.. my husband has a lot of misogynistic tendencies and it has been suggested to me that he might be into men.. never would have crossed my mind but now I'm starting to log things he says and does to wait and see.. this is just wild to me..

Misogynists tend to be the complete opposite of gay.
Gay guys usually love being around women and besties.

I used to think this until I started reading datalounge.