Discovered niece has a lewd instagram. Tell her parents?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s possible her parents already know, I have no clue. Randomly saw like a recommended profile on my daughter’s instagram and it was her 17 year old cousin. Every photo is her boobs and butt out. It’s so disturbing. It’s an open profile and I guess it’s separate from her other profile my daughter and me are linked to.

You know your family better than we do. My cousin’s wife helps her teenage daughters curate their racy pictures for social media.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife’s younger cousin had an IG like that - she was 18 and it was an act of college rebellion after being raised by a very uptight mother and father. I enjoyed it a lot and my wife was scandalized and when chatting with her aunt, the aunt started complaining about her daughters rebellion, and my wife said something like “yeesh I can only imagine, her instagram must drive you insane…” assuming her aunt had seen it.

She hadn’t. It got locked down very fast and the cousin hasn’t spoken to my wife for 10 years. There’s a significant age gap so they were never close but she apparently hasn’t gotten over it.

I don’t see what the big deal was - she didn’t show anything worse than every other woman her age, it was a public account, etc but it didn’t end well. Keep it to yourself.


Obviously you did get what the big deal was since you enjoyed it so much. Gross.


She was hot and mostly naked - it wasn’t just me enjoying it. But also most 18-22 yo girls you know are posting the same stuff - it’s not a big deal. Just click your profile private.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think you should start commenting. "Oh wow sweetie, I remember changing your poopy diapers!" or things like that.

She will block you, but she should also know that her family can see these pictures too.


You need help. Old Aunt Sarah needs to mind her business. She knows people can see them.
Anonymous
I feel like parents of girls like this rationalize it and lie to themselves that “every” teen girl does this. No. Not even close. There are millions of popular, social and pretty American teen girls who do not do this on public or secondary social media accounts.
Anonymous
All of these risqué teen girl public (and probably private too) social media photo accounts are being scraped and the photos are being saved, stolen and used on really sick websites.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would definitely send it to my sibling and say “hey I just want to make sure you’ve seen this.”


+1.
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