Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t give this another thought except to grey rock them forever because they sound dysfunctional and rude. I love grey rock because it only depends on me maintaining the behavior and it doesn’t require severing the relationship (which your DH may not want to do). It has kept me sane interacting with my in-laws for the last 15 years.
This. I had similar where when first met was no in road with the family unless I wanted to be wasted with them at 10 am on a Tuesday and since I didn’t, could tell level of drink by when they started looping “we miss Larla” (prior ex who apparently was a “great drinker!”). Grey rocking is key to survival if not cutting out completely.
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