Here’s the thing- if you know signing your child up for an activity requires you to volunteer, don’t sign up your kid if you can’t volunteer. Stop throwing your parenting responsibilities on other parents. Hire a sitter to do your volunteer activities or readjust your priorities. It’s really not that hard. |
Thanks for all the responses so far, folks. We aren’t a big team either but the jobs - esp meet jobs - still need to be done. |
+1 DH and I are both in the office, full-time, and have three kids who swim summer (and year-round). I do most of the volunteering and am also a volunteer official for PVS. DH does the shuttling to and from practice, wrangles them during meets, etc. Kids’ activities are a privilege, not a right. |
Wow our summer swim has no requirements for volunteering or points or money paid. We just all get together as parents and step up and make it work. |
The concessions price gouging is another story |
This sounds similar to our NVSL team, although I'm not sure about the donut delivery being multiple points. Signing up for spots is competitive. You must be logged on at a certain time to the minute. They recommend multiple computers/laptops per family. The good spots get taken by committee members and those in the know. If a family doesn't have 6 points, they assign volunteer spots. No buyout option that I know of. |
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Except that you really.do need those 3 timers per lane. And even then the results aren't going to.be perfect because human beings aren't perfect. But in order to be fair to all the kids the times are taken as medians, and that's a heck of a lot better than just depending on one person. |
+100. I know I do more than some people and less than others. But my kids are older now so I'm trying to step it up more. |
Maybe? It’s hard to know for sure. Some teams have to independently fund raise without the support of the pool. Coaches salaries, equipment costs, and other items will easily run a team thousands of dollars and then some. |
How is it unfair, only sahp should volunteer? My husband flexes for every meet or takes leave. You can find a way. |
I think maybe we say each family needs to volunteer for at least 3 things during the season but we’ve been in it so long that I don’t know what the official rules are any more and I don’t think anyone is really counting. Usually we can fill all the jobs with a bit of scrambling/begging for timers. The families who volunteer a lot get acknowledged at the banquet and get to go first in the food line which is a pretty big incentive.
Most parents on our team work, including pretty much all the “super volunteers” and team reps. |
Parents need to choose activities that work for them, or find solutions. Summer swim worked for my family when other activities that cost more because they don’t rely on volunteers didn’t. I didn’t go to those activities and complain that they were unfair to my middle class family. I recognized that they weren’t for us. It’s ok to say that summer swim isn’t for you. It’s also ok to problem solve. My teens are happy to work set up, take down, picking up things for you, for a price. Hire a babysitter and work a meet your kids aren’t in. Or arrange your schedule to watch your kids and work at the meets they do swim in. |
Spinning off this comment, something I don't understand about the culture of summer swim at our pool is that all these strong, strapping teen swimmers leave at the end without lifting a finger at all to help while the parents are left to move all the chairs, tables, benches, umbrellas, etc. back into place. Some are wrought iron and heavy. Why can't each teen put one chair back into place or something on their way out? |
I'm hoping this is sarcasm. |