Going to the dentist doesn’t suck enough? Now you have to make “morally legitimate” dentist appointments? GTFO |
What standard of morality are you applying to reach this conclusion? |
DP, but this is a weird statement. There is nothing wrong with making a medical appointment during work hours. In fact there is no moral requirement to only receive healthcare during personal time. We are specifically allowed to use our sick leave for medical appointments. I recently had an appointment that could only be mid-day or else I’d have to wait a couple more months for another opening. Commuting an hour + each way (2 hours round trip at least) to sit in an office for 3 hours is stupid. I’d spend almost as much time commuting as I would working. And I can’t just come in super early because I have kids to get to school. FWIW I used credit hours for half the day and sick leave for the other half (during the appointment time). In fact I pretty much always have to schedule my appointments during work hours because of childcare reasons (my spouse works as well and has a less flexible schedule than me). And aside from my kids’ ped office and a walk-in clinic at my primary’s (which is for urgent care type issues), all my doctors (derm, dentist, allergist, primary, gastro) are open during normal business hours. Add in a kid with special needs who has an appointment every other month and it looks like I’ll be using a lot of leave and skipping out on the commute. Also, I used to be able to squeeze in a quick lunchtime telehealth appointment for routine stuff. But there is literally nowhere to have a private call in my building. Conference rooms are full. Even the lactation room and break room are being used for seating. |
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^^ And I’ll add that even if I could schedule a medical appointment at 7 PM or whatever time not during work hours I wouldn’t. Because that is my personal time to spend with family.
If I want to purposefully schedule an appointment mid day and use my accrued leave that is what it is there for. |
This isn't every Fed office. My dh had 10/12 of his staff leave in the two Forks (there's a rumor that his office will be shut down in the RIF which hasn't happened yet, so everyone bolted). He's now on his work laptop at the dining room table from when he gets home until when he goes to bed trying to keep things moving in his office. His office oversees/authorizes contracts for ongoing projects so if the work doesn't get done, the whole system breaks down-- contractors don't work, services stop, etc. I *wish* they prohibited him from bringing home the laptop or working past 6. |
I book my dental cleaning six months in advance. I go every six months so I always book a 7am Friday appointment. Lightest day at work meeting wise. Sure Root Canal, Wisdom teeth yes take off. But I for instance had guy across the street my office do implants and gum surgery at lunch time. I still could go back to work no problem. But pulling wisdom teeth that deserves a day off. Also a colonscopy. Not a teeth cleaning or check up. |
Excuses. I can take meeting on my laptop with phone hot spot anywhere. I do it car or park near work if I have too. And there is a thing called a husband. He can help out. |
Which agency? This is anonymous so no harm in naming it. |
Healthy Smiles Dental for instance in Falls Church for instance has these hours. There is no reason to schedule dental cleanings during work hours. When I had young kids I literally would have a 8am cleaning done on a Saturday. Kids were still in bed or pjs and spouse home. My spouse would do same thing. Dentists are like car washers or Jiffy Lube they are open nearly all the time. Mon 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM Tue 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM Wed 12:00 PM - 8:00 PM Thu 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM Fri 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM Sat 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM Sun 11:00 AM - 4:00 PM |
This is so repugnant. I will go to the dentist when it works best for my schedule and with my leave. I do not support these chain dentists. They push procedures and money over the health of my teeth. These VCs are purchasing up good dentist offices and replacing them with junk like this. FWIW my dentist only works 7-3:30 Monday- Thursday. I fully support his ability to be home with his own family for dinner and on weekends. |
I agree with the pp- your spouse should not be doing this. We were told we can be fired for working from home, even after hours. |
I appreciate his commitment, but honestly I wish people would just let the system break. If 90% of the staff leaves and things keep running as normal, then DOGE and the public at large will assume the work can be done with fewer people. It is time for Feds to just let the chips fall where they fall. In the long term it isn’t doing anyone any good to have people breaking themselves and not seeing their families to keep up appearances. The reality is ugly. Let it be shown. |
Some of us pick our doctors because of their skills, not their location. |
Well I deal with PII and am not allowed to to work anywhere off a hot spot. ODS only. And my DH does help out, but his ability to help out doesn’t always perfectly align with doctor office availability. Plus regardless … part of my compensation package includes paid leave to attend medical appointments. So I will use that leave to attend medical appointments. What is next, are you going to suggest we not use our health benefits? Not take vacations? Not use the flex band? |
What do you not understand about the fact that some people don’t want to use their weekend time for a dentist appointment? Sorry, but I have way better stuff to be doing than getting my teeth cleaned on a weekend morning. But I am a competent and efficient employee who can get my workloads completed on time even with a mid week dental appointment. I’m sorry you can’t swing that. |