Catching your husband looking at other women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yea, I'm like that. I let my H know when we were dating I would rather be single than with a man who behaved that way and I still mean that to this day. He knows I'm serious, so I haven't had any issues.

I'm sure he totally doesn't notice attractive women or looks at porn because you put him on notice years ago.

He's very apologetic when he tells his AP his wife says he has to turn the lights off

[Anonymous]

90% of OF subscribers are married men unfortunately - and nearly all of them look at regular porn.

Some do it so much these days their wives are abandoned in the bedroom.

Not very nice situation.

[Anonymous]

I am 44 and have been happily married for 20 years. Strong relationship/best friends and an active and fulfilling sex life. And I’m also aware DH discreetly watches porn sometimes. And I’ve known this forever. It’s not ever been an issue and I think women make too big a deal of it. I mean, there are a few scenes in Bridgerton that are well on their way.

[Anonymous]

I think women and men should spend a week a year in each other’s shoes/hormones. The world would be a better place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman in a very happy relationship. It's perfectly normal and not sure why it would piss you off. Other than maybe gawking inappropriately or making comments, I'm sure a part of it is almost involuntary. I notice men too. I'm sure you do too.

Surprising for DCUM, but this is the right answer.

[Anonymous]

OP:

1. Have you ever checked out other men while you were married?

2. So what

3. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

So, you've discovered that your husband is a heterosexual man... shocking indeed.

[Anonymous]

We both look at other hot people and then go home and have the best sex. What's the problem exactly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We both look at other hot people and then go home and have the best sex. What's the problem exactly?

OP can’t unclench.

[Anonymous]

I’m sure we both look discreetly but I’ve never called him on it. I’m clueless if he watches porn. We have a great sex life and I don’t think it is porn driven. No bondage!

[Anonymous]

To notice someone is normal. The first second of a glance is natural. To continue after that or taking another look is for lust. Most partners don’t feel great watching their spouse lust after another.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You just don’t do it for him anymore.

Yep.. Why all of a sudden with such a great marriage...?

He’s tired of eating Cheerios everyday and now wants the variety pack.