How Many of You Will Be Receiving Nothing on Valentine’s Day from Your Husband?

[Anonymous]

I think dh and I went out on our first valentines in the same city. We were so poor I doubt we even ordered wine. We’ve been eating old El Paso veggie tacos every year since. We usually exchange a card. I think he forgot last year and no hard feelings. Going on 25 years strong. We are very doting on each other through the year - not materially though. Just with kindness.

[Anonymous]

I'm giving him the beat sex of his life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And will you be doing or giving nothing in return?

We aren’t in the same place this year. I gave him a small thing before he left town. We might have a make up valentines day next week. Sometimes he sends flowers or I sneak something into his suitcase. Every few years we spend it together. His schedule gets wacky this time of year.

[Anonymous]

That’s us. No presents either way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will clean the house and do laundry. That will be enough of a pleasant surprise for him.

I do love him very much but I am a lazy person.

Lazy people don't clean and wash voluntarily. This is either your love language or his and you understand it.

[Anonymous]

I think Valentine's day is a dumb made up holiday. At most I will get my husband a card. I hope all he does is a card, but often he will get me flowers too. I don't really care about flowers and they are so expensive this time of year so I wish he would just skip it.

[Anonymous]

I hope my husband gets me nothing. I got him nothing. I mean, he will be having a good time at night. That’s all he wants anyways. I hate crap so I hope he gets me nothing.

[Anonymous]

My husband already bought cards for me, the kids and the grandparents. He is great about handling this stuff. I will run out and grab a card for him tonight. We agreed to go
Out for sushi and I made the reservation.

[Anonymous]

Me. Not upset about it at all. I don’t want to buy him anything either.

[Anonymous]

I took advantage of a "Valentine's Day offer" and bought myself stuff from Dior, then announced to my husband this afternoon that his gift was being delivered today. I will order sushi for tomorrow and we'll have a nice family dinner at home. He's relieved with this arrangement. It's been going on for years.

Life can be very simple if you make it so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And will you be doing or giving nothing in return?

Mine is giving some jewellery. I picked out a few pieces (I was nice and kept them under 30k) and he'll surprise me from the options. We usually do something like this. I think he wanted some fancy bourbon or something I sent my assistant to find it. Otherwise we are having a low key evening at home.

[Anonymous]

We’re cooking dinner together.

So technically not receiving anything, but who cares? We’re spending time together making our favorite meal.

[Anonymous]

We are having a date lunch tomorrow and that is all. No cards or flowers (so overpriced.) I got the teenagers each a bag of their favorite candy.

Happily married 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And will you be doing or giving nothing in return?

Mine is giving some jewellery. I picked out a few pieces (I was nice and kept them under 30k) and he'll surprise me from the options. We usually do something like this. I think he wanted some fancy bourbon or something I sent my assistant to find it. Otherwise we are having a low key evening at home.

This is not even a good troll attempt.

[Anonymous]

My DH is getting me a leaf blower.