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| I forgot about the tuna. |
There's a new WIC foods package, so this information is outdated. The package has a greater emphasis on fruits and vegetables. Check out: http://dchealth.dc.gov/doh/cwp/view,A,1371,Q,582032.asp |
Yay! I'm the Pollyanna who started the Campaign to make DCUM a nicer place, and this warms my heart.
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No shit, this pisses me off beyond belief |
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Cheating the system... how?
My sister was 8 months pregnant, had a 2 year old and a 5 year old, and was a SAHM when her husband, a government lawyer who had just started his new job (at trainee pay for 6 months) was about to be laid off due to budget problems. At the last minute they found the money to hire him and some other lawyers, but only part time. Well part time trainee salary, even for a lawyer, was minimal enough that my pregnant sister and her kids qualified for WIC and they got some free milk, cheese and eggs. WOW! The hassles they had to go through -- people were nice enough, but the process was demeaning to her and the other "cleints"of the program -- asi fthey were idiots, when all they were, was poor. All for some $40 worth of free dairy products. There's no way anyone could use this assistance to get rich and buy an expensive car. |
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"It was embarrassing enough that I am advertising that I am on WIC I am fully aware of the groins of the people behind me "
The groins? LOL! |
So, you deny your children the nourishment the need because of your false pride? Humility is a lesson most of us have to learn in life and it seems that you are still arrogant and too good to use services that will give your children food. Don't worry, one way or another, you will learn humility. |
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Many low income people need the nutrition lessons. I hear a lot of bitching from low income but well educated moms about how WIC doesn't cover organic items, etc etc. Well, it wasn't meant to. WIC was always meant to cater to moms who would do things like water down formula or give their kids sugary cereals or soda instead of healthy cereals and real juice.
In other words, it's not meant for the low income hipster demographic, and I think it does a damn fine job of what it is supposed to do. |
Sources, please? |
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You could also argue that WIC was designed to prioritize having people purchase those things that the federal government subsidizes, namely dairy and eggs.
I don't think it's unreasonable to question why some products are allowed and not others. It would seem like having approved product categories, with limited exclusions (for things like sugar fruit drinks or particular sugary cereals) would be a better system that would allow for people to choose organic if they wanted to. The disparity in prices means that if you're choosing organic, you're probably not getting the target volume as compared to the commercially-produced items, and that would be something that would be tricky to reconcile with the underlying WIC principle of minimizing the flexibility of the consumer as much as possible, out of the belief that poor women need to be told what and when and how much to buy to feed their kids. There's all kinds of underlying cultural assumptions built into the way federal aid programs are structured (particularly food ones); a good review of how they've changed through the 20th century is Katz's The Undeserving Poor. |
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I remember several years ago when my housekeeper's unmarried teenage daughter got pregnant and I helped them fill out the WIC forms because their English wasn't good enough.
I remember with shame how irritated I felt on so many levels. I think WIC is a great program that helps the neediest and most innocent -- babies and children. But it's easy to feel judgmental about it, and hard to get over that sometimes. |
| *"There are" that last sentence should read; I rewrote and missed it. |
| I have no problem with the OP being baffled or annoyed or questioning about the Lincoln Navigator. If someone needs WIC then they need to turn that monster in for a gas sipping sedan. She could get more in gas savings than she benefits from WIC. |
You know what? Screw you. It's called having a budget, cutting coupons, buying things off brand and on sale, foregoing updating my wardrobe except to get rid of frumpy maternity crap, living with dents on my car because who cares how it looks as long as it runs well, foregoing replacing things that were destroyed in a recent basement flood unless they were absolutely necessary, signing my kids up for medicare - another head bangingly frustrating process - since it would cost $500 more than we can afford to put them on DH's employer's insurance .... I could go on. You don't know me or the first thing about my family, so I'd appreciate you not judging or lecturing me about how to raise my children. Be assured that my children want for nothing and I do indeed know the meanings of the words Humility, Economy and none of the 3 posts I've made to this thread have been to invite anyone's pity or anything at my circumstances. My point was to illustrate that not everyone is trying to game the system, and that if they are, they must have the patience of Job. It's not as easy as showing up somewhere, sticking your hand out, and saying *Where the free shit at?* |
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When I had WIC I don't remember it being that difficult. Some grocery stores have a lot of WIC customers so they are used to it and everything is done very quickly.
It is embarrassing to be on a program like that because you know people look down on you. I didn't care though. I lost everything right before I had my daughter. I was 8 months pregnant and was lucky to find food for that day. Our electricity and water was shut off. I didn't apply for food stamps but I did have Medicaid and WIC. Those times definitely taught me a lot about not judging peoples circumstances. You just never know. I had a friend that loaned me his Jeep for two years during this time. So yes, I walked out of the store and got into a Jeep Grand Cherokee. But home was a room in a friends basement (for three of us). I had no phone, no clothes (I wore one pair of pants my entire pregnancy), nothing. You ladies are all to old not to know to stop making assumptions. |