DP. Agree with OP. Private schools have their own legacy network allowing access and sometimes even a pipeline. Sure the legacy A list kids get first dibs, but who gets off the waitlist? Private kids. Who is waybiberrepresented at Midd and Williams? Private school kids. There is a hook there, even for those who aren't z list or legacy. |
+1. At my son’s rigorous top NYC private, middle of the class would be the valedictorian almost everywhere else. Throw in some ECs, and you’ve got yourself a perfectly fine Ivy candidate. The legacy status might just tip the scales. |
I’m broke, too. But if a billionaire’s nice kid gets into Harvard, the billionaire buys Harvard a building, and the billionaire pays for the financial aid for five students, what’s so icky about that? It’s a lot of easier if Harvard admits a few billionaires than if it hits me up for money I don’t have. |
Troll |
The thing is that Harvard has plenty of money already. I am fine with them attracting a few more billionaires kids I guess but their endowment is huge as it is and they benefit from massive taxpayer subsidies and all they do is make inequality in this country worse by favoring kids whose parents can afford sports like lax and sailing (I say this as a parent of a kid doing one of those sports). Google all the stuff Malcom Gladwell has written about the Ivy League, it is gross. |
It's more than just about donations. They want influential and noteworthy families in the Harvard community. Extreme money (because it brings influence) puts you in this category of family. But it's also why they preferentially admit the kids of famous authors or politicians or artists, etc. They want these names under the Harvard brand. |
Read about Harvard's endowment. It's so massive that they make the school completely free for everyone indefinitely. They don't need anymore billionaires. PP is correct. It's about political influence and branding. |
So, the kid was unethical about ED. And maybe was on the Harvard Z list, tipping him into Harvard. His UChicago acceptance points to him being academically qualified for Harvard. |
But that’s not what she’s saying in the quoted text. Private school kids may have an advantage but that doesn’t mean they’re not extremely qualified. And they certainly don’t lower the level of competition. |
Maybe you should reflect on the privileges that you and your kid have enjoyed and stop taking such an extreme interest in the lives of kids who aren’t your own. Just a thought. |
| Harvard is not yielding the genius types - they prefer MIT, Stanford, Caltech. So they need the rich and powerful to stay relevant. |
+1. Your DC’s friend sounds like a decent kid and I wouldn’t fault people for playing the hand they’ve got in this crazy climate. And sounds like you don’t even know that a check has been promised? I feel your pain, but I’d try to err on the side of giving people the benefit of the doubt. |
Sure. Spoken out if entitlement and privilege. And a little delusion. |
| Had a good friend Z lister at my HYP - required gap year and all. Ended up starting and selling business. Family gives more to my Alma mater than anyone else I know. Sure the kids will have better shot. Doesn’t bother me one bit. These schools are so much more generous on FA than when I was there and so much more focus on first gen. Not totally sure why that’s more offensive than a slightly less wealthy kid recruited for sailing. |
Agree. How is this any more offensive than those recruited for swimming or sailing or squash or any number of sports that add NOTHING to anyone on a university campus except those who are on the team (but required years and years of an outlay of time and cash by parents)? |