If you aren't going to let them fail, and you are asking teachers to accept things late, you aren't holding them accountable. Holding a kid accountable would mean that kid feels the consequences of turning things in late or not at all. Your kid is being difficult because they know you will rescue them, or because you've turned grades into something that's your responsibility and not theirs. Now is the time to back off and let them hit the actual consequences, because doing so in high school has much bigger impact. |
Bingo. Middle school is where they find this out. If they aren’t prepared to take ownership of their own learning by the time they leave middle school, high school is going to be very painful for your whole family. Let they figure this out at their own pace. Support them, but they need to start to take the reins of their own responsibilities. If they want to get into a certain college or program, then they need to put in the work. Don’t check grades daily. They will not be updated. The update at the interim mark is your best clue to how students are doing. Best thing you can do is support and encourage your child at home. |
Amen. Looking forward to getting some sleep over the break. |
Kid in HS so let him handle it but the late grades make it very difficult. I know teachers overloaded but they are very happy to plug in that zero instead of doing the help required as documented in 504. |
You missed the point. I am trying to hold my own kid accountable by paying attention but when its not put in correctly, not put in at all or not graded I cannot do that. No, its not time to back off. You can be a lazy parent, but I'm not. |
+1 There are a lot of people who NEED to feel that natural pressure or they’ll never do what they need to do. So, having that in 6th is a good way to start when the stakes are low. |
Not only do we have no time to plan or grade, we may also have 1/3 of our students with IEPs and 504s. We have to provide different accommodations for all of them simultaneously. As you can imagine, that’s a bit tricky when you have 150 students and no support. It’s rather insulting that you think we are “very happy” to see a student struggle. |
DP. I don’t know… in my day grades were only beginning to go online, sometimes. I personally think I benefitted from figuring out how to do it myself, without my parents on my case. My younger sister had parents on her case, and it did not serve her. This is something I worry about balancing with my own kids. |
| Hey- I'm impressed- they are going beyond the minimum so chill out. Think about how many students the teachers are responsible x the amount of required grades per quarter. Teachers are seriously doing the best they can. If they weren't- grades ould go in the day of required report card entry. What I teach? 2500 grades per quarter, 10000 graders per year, plus actual teaching/planning, etc... Seriously, chill. |
Four missing assignments means that you need to work with her on executive management. That is the more important issue. |
The accountability comes from being the one responsible. So, you’re not holding them accountable. That’s the part you need to understand so perhaps you can find a system where your kid is maintaining accountability and you are merely supporting them. |
+1 yes the overburdened teacher should submit grades more often but focus on what you can change OP. It’s very difficult to get a D in MCPS and your kid needs better skills on handing stuff in. |
Different teachers handle grading differently. In our school it’s easy to get a c or d. |
| As a teacher, it really bugs me when kids turn in work late, then demand it get graded immediately. |
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Ignore the trolls saying that it's the kid's job to do the teacher's job for them.
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