Sadness When They Move Out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Make sure you cry in private. I have an emotionally unregulated mother and it's always been awkward and cringey. This has pushed me away. It's fine to be sad though, we all are at important junctures in life. Just be happy and cheerful in front of him.

It is a shame you are uncomfortable with feelings.

Many people would envy the fact that your mother clearly loves you. Unfortunately, you have learned to pathologize an entirely normal reaction.

Geez. Nobody wants your drama. Even your choice of words is so out of place, you apparently know CLEARLY, I'm supposedly UNCOMFORTABLE. It's a strange way to try to control other people and decide what they feel, strangers at that. There are plenty of women who cannot process that their "kids" have grown up and that they are no longer in control, kids are gone and do their own things without mommy telling them what they CLEARLY should feel. There's nothing to envy there. Looks like you're CLEARLY one of those women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Maybe you should take a little emotion from your mom instead of coming across and a frosty bi---- when someone tries to give you a different perspective.

Maybe you should take your own advice.