When A is A but spouse contradicts facts.

[Anonymous]

OCPD is the most common personality disorder, and is twice as common in males.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive%E2%80%93compulsive_personality_disorder

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OCPD is the most common personality disorder, and is twice as common in males.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive%E2%80%93compulsive_personality_disorder

How is this OCD?! I don't think so...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here
They definitely dont show it when dating plus plus everything is new and intriguing and oh “so in love. “
Forward 20 years the frustration of work / responsibilities pile on and its a different person altogther.
The snappiness for no solid reason is mind boggling not to mention distorting FACTS and being snappy.

Question when you fight does he also say you said things you didn't say? Does he often disagree with you? Gaslight you?

yes my spouse does

NP

He has created whole situations on a group vacation to support his personal view. Even about his own mother crying and crying when you did XYZ. No she wasn’t. I was there, so were six other adults. Lies lies lies

It’s like he thinks everyone is really stupid. As stupid as he is apparently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do you continue to argue with him? Why do you even converse with him? Do you actually think it is going to change? Newsflash! He will not change.

Exactly. Just don’t talk to him, ask anything of him, or ask him any questions about what happened ever.
Just like he wants!

lol. Probably so. He’s a freeloader.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here
They definitely dont show it when dating plus plus everything is new and intriguing and oh “so in love. “
Forward 20 years the frustration of work / responsibilities pile on and its a different person altogther.
The snappiness for no solid reason is mind boggling not to mention distorting FACTS and being snappy.

Question when you fight does he also say you said things you didn't say? Does he often disagree with you? Gaslight you?

Op here
Yes to all of the above.

Has a very high superiority complex.
His opinion has to win no matter who he is conversing with about whatever the topic it is.