A very hot doctor flirted with me today

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!!

Um, yeah. It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you. It’s definitely not all in your head.

See the part in my comment where I talked about how the average nobody would disbelieve you, even if you were brave enough to speak out?

It do be exactly the fsck like that sometimes.

PP, I don't like wishing ill on people, but I suspect I won't have to. May you be served your own brand someday, or watch someone you love suffer the way I had to, and may it soften your frozen heart and cynical mind. Doctors, like all people, can and do use their position of perceived authority to abuse people with less power.

And yes, it really did happen to me. Jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!!

op - i think we may be getting ahead of ourselves.

The doc either flirted or didn't. If you're going to allege that it's flirting, you need to walk. Nothing about that is "cute" or "fun".

You're assuming it was her doctor. Maybe it was some random doctor in the elevator

"op - eek yes.
but like orthopedic not like vagina."

The cutesy talk and almost humblebrag nature of the post screams troll, but there's the comment where OP says it was her doctor.

But not her "vagina doctor", which apparently makes it totally fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!!

Um, yeah. It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you. It’s definitely not all in your head.

See the part in my comment where I talked about how the average nobody would disbelieve you, even if you were brave enough to speak out?

It do be exactly the fsck like that sometimes.

PP, I don't like wishing ill on people, but I suspect I won't have to. May you be served your own brand someday, or watch someone you love suffer the way I had to, and may it soften your frozen heart and cynical mind. Doctors, like all people, can and do use their position of perceived authority to abuse people with less power.

And yes, it really did happen to me. Jerk.

You are a massive red flag yourself.

[Anonymous]

Fun, OP!

I was on a business trip last week and sat at the bar with my book and a glass of wine. A man pretty quickly asked what I was reading and started chatting. It was fun at first because I don’t know the last time an unfamiliar man approached me. After he had a few drinks he started telling me, “I’d totally take you upstairs and have sex with you if we weren’t both married” which was less fun. I excused myself and when I emerged from the hotel lobby bathroom he was waiting to “continue our conversation”. That was not fun at all. Actually another woman said “there you are! I know you’re tired and I’ve been looking for you. Let’s get out of here.” She rode the elevator with me for one floor and I appreciated her stepping in.

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry, you are still ugly. That’s just how he acts.

[Anonymous]

Doctors are people, too.
Some are good at their job, suck at everything else. Some are terrible doctors, good at some other things.
Some just suck at everything
You’ll meet a few doctors who are excellent at their profession and good people all around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!!

Um, yeah. It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you. It’s definitely not all in your head.

See the part in my comment where I talked about how the average nobody would disbelieve you, even if you were brave enough to speak out?

It do be exactly the fsck like that sometimes.

PP, I don't like wishing ill on people, but I suspect I won't have to. May you be served your own brand someday, or watch someone you love suffer the way I had to, and may it soften your frozen heart and cynical mind. Doctors, like all people, can and do use their position of perceived authority to abuse people with less power.

And yes, it really did happen to me. Jerk.

You are a massive red flag yourself.

Only to low-integrity, ethically-devoid jerks (like you?)

[Anonymous]

Well, this escalated quickly...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think anyone has flirted with me in a long time. But I'm pretty sure that's what was happening.
Kind of fun! Does this make me a bad person?
basically just a random internet confession seeing as I dont think I can tell anyone obviously IRL.

Did you, um, allow him to give you a penetrating physical?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My MD DH used to flirt with the fat smelly ones to get them gone sooner.

Yep

[Anonymous]

Reminder to good looking people: Being friendly is a great act of charity you can do any day, anywhere.


Reminder to bad looking people: keeping your mouth shut is an act of charity you can do any day, anywhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!!

Wait —you have been stalked by two psychiatrists? And another doctor as well? Somehow I think this is most like delusional on your part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are we assuming OP is a woman?

Because a guy would never say that a "hot doctor" flirting with him was "Kind of fun!".

My doctor is a smokeshow and she put her hands all over me. Schwiiiing!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A woman has never flirted with me I must not be attractive enough lol ... But my wife though flirt with me everyday and that's all I need

I have never seen you I don't know what you look like but your wife has a hot husband. There is nothing hotter than a husband who appreciates how much his wife loves him. It's not heard guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A woman has never flirted with me I must not be attractive enough lol ... But my wife though flirt with me everyday and that's all I need

Good for you 👍

Agueda para de chatear que no soy celosa peroooo