You are obviously getting too stressed. Breathe or you will transmit anxiety, which is not helpful, to your child. Just have them list what they did, in order of recency, time commitment and impact. They are who they are And that is enough. Stop reading about other kids if it makes you insecure. Again, your kid does not need that. |
How would Stanford confirm any of this btw?? |
How you talk about your activities matters A LOT |
What is the major? What type of schools? |
The theoretical kid that this represents probably did very little of this. |
Or that they did but the impact has been exaggerated. |
Based on? My kid just entered the info and did great this year. 20 apps, 15 acceptances, many in the top 15/top 20. |
+1. Unless the activity is 'top tier', it's of low importance in the admission process. If it were a top tier activity it will be addressed in other parts of the application, anyways.. |
Lots of exaggeration. I assume this stuff is kind of obvious to the admissions reps. |
I'm the one you're responding to. I don't necessarily agree with you. I think some activities can be meaningful to admissions, however, the meaningfulness won't be coming from the description. The examples above are horrible. "Endurance specialist" for a non-recruited distance swimmer? Mentioning relays - so dumb. Other people use fake stuff to puff up an entry. A friend said her kid said an internship was highly competitive and it definitely was not. My own kid applied and during the interview was told almost everyone gets a spot. |
Why does it not qualify for how many years this was done? If everything was done every year, this would amount to 45 hrs per week - a full time job with no vacation. Even only the first 2 activities combined (which presumably were done for a few years, and they were done for a good part of the year) add up to 28 hours/week. Plus a presumably rigorous course schedule ... Do universities check how reasonable the lists are, or if they are conducive to student mental health? |
What if her winning 1st place in the state chess tournament was from her freshman year rather than junior year? Should she still list it at the top of activity lists? |
Activities can shape how the AO sees the candidate. Yes it can matter a lot. |
Yes given the other activities. |
+1 this was my very first reaction. Just the first entry...volunteering 16 hours per week for 24 weeks per year seems very difficult for a high school student for even one year. Are they volunteering all weekend for half the year? Or four hours after school for four days per week? Seems really hard with a rigorous courseload if that were the only activity and nearly impossible if there were any others. |