+1 Not fair to the kid or the guests. Incredibly selfish bc you never know who is immunocompromised, pregnant, doing chemo, etc. No people shouldn’t hide in their houses, but if you have a kid with something do the right thing and spare everyone |
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If school would not allow your child then don't go.
But as someone else pointed out, the school/doctor definition of "fever" is no longer around 99. It's 100.4+. |
And thats wrong too! A fever is elevated from your normal temperature and after COVID we should all have a normal temperature for our kids since we had to take their temp every.single.day.multiple.times.per.day. The 98.6 average was conducted in mid 1800s and is outdated. We know that average body temp has reduced by almost a degree to 97.5. A fever is technically 2 degrees from your normal. My kid runs at 97.3-97.7. Anything over 99.7 is a fever for him. Low grade would be 99-99.7. |
“Likely” not spread the fever isn’t a help at all to someone who can’t get whatever is driving that fever due to immunosuppression, “doc” Kids aren’t always great about washing their hands, or not using their sleeves to wipe their runny noses, touching things, spreading germs in general. Given, a lot of adults aren’t good at those things either but there is no reason for a kid with a fever and runny nose needs to be at a BBQ. Maybe they’d be better places at the park with other kids battling snotty noses where people aren’t sharing food, in close surfers chatting, sharing the bathroom, etc. If kid was good enough to go, they wouldn’t be given Motrin to start with. |
Thank you! Snotty runny nose being wiped on chairs and tables and door handles. |
Who has a thermometer that's accurate that decimal place? |
| No, stay home. |
| The fever means your child's body is trying to kill something off. Don't take a kid with a fever to a bbq and ruin 2 weeks of everyone's summer once they all get sick. |
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I am pretty lenient about taking my kids out and about with a mild clear runny nose or letting them hang out with other sniffly kids (esp in winter when it is nonstop). But fever, even very low grade, is a no go.
I get it’s a bummer to miss the BBQ but that is life. Kids get sick and you miss things. |
Every thermometer we have in the house......? |
| No. Should be fever and vomit/diarrhea free for 24 hours without meds before attending events/places. |
Nonsense. You arent supposed to sebd a feverish child to school. |
Stay home. |
I’m shocked…SHOCKED I tell you…that the “FoLlOw ThE ScIeNcE” crowd doesn’t believe in the science! It was a rouse all along! https://www.cdc.gov/port-health/php/definitions-symptoms-reportable-illness/index.html |
| If Motrin is used to bring down fever, no. |