Generally don't take anything seriously if the author doesn't self-identify ... |
This. Mine does 20 hours a week all year long and has competed at nationals. Of course it's part of their profile. |
Team "this is mediocre advice" at least to the extent it's presented categorically and without exception.
My hookless DS did three varsity sports all four years and was far from a recruited athlete. He did so because they were fun and he liked being part of the team. He also did other ECs of varying importance. I think DS listed his three sport ECs in the #3-#8 range of common app, which he generally ranked in order of importance. He also listed a paid-coaching job he had as a separate EC, even though it overlapped with one of his varsity sports. Granted, it's a sample size of one, but DS got into Dartmouth (the school mentioned in OP's article) RD and other selective colleges. My thinking is that admissions officers want to know how applicants spend their free time and why. More than anything, they want authenticity. They mostly want to know "what kind of person is he and how might he fit in at our school?" DS spent a significant amount of time doing sports and it was part of his "authentic self." My concern with DS would have been that replacing such sports with more academic/spikey ECs would have unauthentic. Also, DS had a spike, which he displayed through his personal statement, awards, LORs, and a couple other ECs in his app. I don't think replacing his sport ECs with more spike-focused ECs would have done any more to establish his particular spike; whereas, I think his sport ECs added a new dimension to his application. Also, I've listened to dozens of AOs proclaim that they do not prefer spikey applicants over well-rounded ones, or vice versa. I think this is particularly true at liberal arts focused schools like Dartmouth, which emphasize academic breadth and community as much as depth. Finally, I personally believe that college is partly a matching process. If sports are an important part of your DC's high school experience and a particular college doesn't value that, it's probably not a good match anyway. |
If this was really, really valuable advice, they wouldn't give it away for free. |
I think this is exactly why we have a mental health crisis in America. |
Your son’s strategy - one sport and other meaningful ECs makes sense. 3 sports and no other meaningful ECs does not make sense. Also the stuff highlighted is a joke and not meaningful. |
The Coach says that, does he?
I'm not listening to him. He only cares about admission decisions that are made concerning his sport. He doesn't speak for all admissions. He may speak the truth that it doesn't matter much -- the playing in HS but not interested in playing in college -- but it doesn't HURT your application. |
If he was smarter he would not be a coach. |
He has to explain to admission people why he won't take a strong student who plays..... on his team.
Then he has to explain, if he does take that student on his team, why his team sucks. |
I read the post. The idea that elite schools are not looking for well-rounded applicants goes against everything I’ve observed in the admissions process this year. Our kid’s HS has kids (often multiple) going to 15-20 of the top 25 schools, and virtually all of them are well-rounded, including sports (not recruited).
I’m not sure who this advice is for—maybe private school parents looking for some sort of advantage in a hyper-competitive environment?—but at our public, at least, it doesn’t align with reality. |
My friend's daughter who is at Dartmouth did not do any sports. She also got into Duke and Cornell. Your son likes sports and enjoyed it and that probably reflected in his essays. He must have also been a great student. I think the point is there is no need to do a sport if the kid does not want to, just for college applications. It is better to spend time doing other things that the kid is interested in and enjoys. My son spent a lot of time playing chess when he was in high school and it did not really help him particularly in college admissions. However, he seems to be getting a lot of interviews from hedgefunds and tech firms because of his rating on his resume and has been an intern at a couple for the last two summers. Sometimes things work out differently than planned but loving something you do does seem to help. A kid should do what they enjoy doing and not do things only for college admissions. |
Don’t agree at all. My DD played two Varsity sports, captain of one. Would never be recruited but a big part of high experience and lots of time. Think for yourself and use common sense. |
Yeah, if the article was saying that sports are not a big draw, and if your kid is playing sports just because they think it will look good on an application, it would be better to spend that time on the thing they are presenting as their "passion". I guess I could see how that would be good advice.
But the article seems to say that if you play sports you should hide that, and leave it off the application. That doesn't make sense to me. My kid will keep playing sports, because he enjoys playing sports and does better with a routine that includes exercise. Not writing the sports in the list of EC's isn't going to make him look better in the college application process. |
OP: Thank you for this comment. I've seen so many articles and books and college counselors who are trying to say that being well-rounded is bad (just like this article) and elite schools are only looking for extremely spiky candidates who have one niche interest, so I'm almost waiting for the pendulum to swing the other way at this point. |
The are looking for best candidates in both segments of the applicant pool. |