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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found my stay at home gf on seeking the sugar baby page. There was a thread here not too long ago about sugar daddies check it out. We did the sugar thing for a few months but the connection chemistry and sex was great so I upgraded her status and downgraded how much cash I was putting into it (no more allowance but I take care of all her expenses which is barely half of what the allowance was since she lives with me now and doesn’t need to cover her own rent) not just that but instead of twice a week sex (on the arrangement) now I can have twice a day sex when I want. She is caring attentive and a great cook too. Has a decent education and comes across as classy, UMC type not someone I would want to “hide” from family and friends. She knows that I have zero intentions to further upgrade her status to wife Win win[/quote] Does she have any other jobs? Is she currently in graduate school? Does she want a family? What are her future plans? Just curious why an educated young woman is in a futureless relationship and not trying to further a long-term career. [/quote] if you come out of your DCUM bubble you would understand that the average person in USA has an income of 50-60k. event most college grad earnings will top out at 80k after decades. that is nothing in DMV vs being the stay-at-home gf for someone whose income is 500k+. try to put things in perspective. everyone doesn't want to get married and everyone doesn't consider being a gf as a futureless relationship[/quote] You're probably a troll but I'll play along. What is her plan when she's 40+, or sooner, when you discard her? Do you fund her 401k and put her on your insurance? [/quote] I never asked her to not have a job. its her choice. It is not my responsibility to fund a 30something year old's 401k just because she is living with me. you call me a troll but your question suggesting I am responsible for her 401k really makes you a troll! and no, she is not on my insurance. she is a gf not a wife. but I did FULLY pay for her 2024 insurance through the health exchange last November [/quote] I understand your position, not hers. I also get not wanting to get married or have her own kids, but what about financial security? She’s unconcerned about her future? Or does she think you're actually going to marry her? [/quote]
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