x1000 You said it! |
Then it’s perfect for you |
+1 |
This is really well said. I have found this to be true of this area - totally toxic. I have not resided elsewhere as an adult. There is an undesirable element in this area, and they would be the first piling it on about someone who mentioned it. The MO is to feign obliviousness about most things, especially something like the toxicity and antisocial tendencies, which only perpetuates the behaviors. it is kind of a fascinating social experiment/observation. |
NYC includes all 5 boroughs. This is easy for me, NYC hands down. Harlem, to be specific. |
None of them is my choice |
EXACTLY THIS first paragraph. I find DC to be great in so many ways, but agree that everything is stifled by what school you go to/what clubs you play for/which pool you belong to/whether you have a nanny... and it just gets worse when you have more money because you end up living in a HCOL neighborhood with less socioeconomic diversity and so on. I see the ways this weighs on my kids and we do everything we can to remind them about our family values. Keeping them in public school, limiting activities, maintaining family time, giving back to others, etc. I think NYC is even worse, and Boston it depends where you live. |
We live in a lovely 10,000sf house. My kids are healthy and surrounded by families who are well educated. People are not too materialistic and not obsessed with looks. I think this is a good place to raise kids. DH and I fit in in nyc, Boston and DC. We have a seven figure HHI and live well. I don’t think this money would go far in NYC. |
LOL not too materialistic but you come across as exactly that. 0 self awareness |
I used to live in nyc and shop frequently and dress up daily. DC life is very different. |
DC is the least expensive of those 3 options but it sounds like that shouldn't be a factor.
I'd pick Boston - excellent schools, a lot of culture in the city, interesting/historic housing stock, easy access to great beaches and islands + mountains/skiing, new england has a lot to offer. |
Dc by a mile |
I lived in all 3 growing up, and while it was a different time, I would hands down say Boston area. |
Well I'm sure NYC is in a perpetual state of mourning that you're not there lol |
+1 I dislike the lack of a sense of place that metro DC has, and how far it is from beaches, mountains, and lakes. |