Please help me understand my husband…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I haven’t mentioned it to him because I don’t see it as a health problem necessarily. It’s not my business if it’s not a problem.

A lot of the PPs on this site must think that spouses can’t have independent thoughts that they don’t talk about openly.

I actually agreed with DH when he voluntarily switched to wine.

Oh, and I don’t join him because I don’t want to drink 3 times a week and I have other ways to relax.

It’s just a mildly annoying habit but everyone has one.

Why is it important to switch to wine?

Wine has the problem of being in a larger bottle so it invites drinking more in one sitting, and it also has denser alcohol content than beer.

[Anonymous]

Is there something else that you guys could come up with for him to do that signals relaxation and helps him to wind down? We recently put in a hot tub and now when we get home from work and we're stressed we hop in the hot tub. Think about other things he might want to do to unwind.