MIL has "gave" us a trip, we declined, she gave it to us again for christmas, we declined, she still will not stop

[Anonymous]

Is it a cabin in a national park where you have to reserve a year out? So they got the cabin reservation when they came online and just assumed you all would want to go?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s something going on, they bought a timeshare or something.

She's already dug OP's grave in the forest, and doesn't want to waste the work.

I don't want to freak OP out, but I do like the idea of coming up with the craziest reasons that MIL is fixated on this trip.

[Anonymous]

You MUST tell us why your MIL wants to do this, OP. Worm it out of her somehow!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, the only reason I think you should ask MIL why she's so insistent/set on this trip is that I really want to know.

[Anonymous]

Let go of the idea that you will convince her to see your point of view. She won’t. That is why you have to say less and less. No explanations. No excuses. Just, “No, this isn’t going to happen. Please stop asking.” Then walk away.

Clear is kind.

[Anonymous]

I agree there is something up with this location, your DH should ask.

When my mom got weird about vacations, it was because she'd received a serious medical diagnosis and would only tell her adult kids when ALL were present in person, which wasn't coming together. And she wanted to take a farewell trip to a favorite spot, but hadn't told anybody why; we, not knowing the reason, didn't want to go ... it was a mess.

[Anonymous]

Does your MIL sell timeshares ?

[Anonymous]

Op for the love of good gracious answer these basic questions.

Is this a vacation WITH them?

Did they buy it already?

Why do they want you to go there so badly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, the only reason I think you should ask MIL why she's so insistent/set on this trip is that I really want to know.

Do not go into the forest with your family. She is luring you there.
Don’t you listen to true crime podcasts: Never go into the forest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's really annoying. But if this is out of character for her, I'd be worried about a mental decline.

+1

[Anonymous]

OP google Tennessee time shares and see if the locations match.

[Anonymous]

She probably already paid for it and needs to use her flight credits
Sorry

[Anonymous]

If she wants to spend time with your family, she should come to you and stay in a hotel near you. It's not much of a "vacation" to take two toddlers on a trip like you're describing.

[Anonymous]

Hey, Marge, we're never going into the woods. Please don't bring it up again. USE YOUR WORDS!

[Anonymous]

Op here.

In laws live 15 mins from us. We see them 2x per week on average.

It is a timeshare "deal". They've had a timeshare for 25 years and go to the most random places. Not totally sure how it works, but it usually seems like they can't pick their dates either.

MiL is 64 and in good health so I don't suspect mental decline, but I guess it's not out of the realm of possibility.